I do not find much enjoyment from being in a relationship, it involves stress, arguments and paranoia, which isnt good. I thought relationships where supposed to be amazing?
2006-10-04 09:33:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to find the root cause of the disputes and to refect on the following:
1. Do the arguments follow any patterns, and if so what are they?
2. Do you have a history of disputatious relations with those close to you (family etc)?
3. Do you always go out with the same kind of personailty, and are they a "difficult" personailty type?
4. Likewise, are you given to arguments, with friends, colleagues etc?
When you have answered these questions you can get better at not having arguments or choosing partners who are easier for you to get along with.
2006-10-04 10:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as if you are in the wrong relationship. There are so many kinds of relationships, the tricky part is finding the one that is right for you. Take some time and figure out what YOU like, and what makes YOU happy, maybe when you have figured that out you will find a relationship that is amazing and stress free!!!
2006-10-04 09:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes being in a relationship is amazing but there are times that people argue but a strong relationship can withstand that. If the relationship you are in does not make you happy anymore, then its better to end it and maybe start another one in due time which should answer your question and have an amazing time.
2006-10-04 09:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by 'princess' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find the right person that makes the "stress, arguments, and paranoia" all worth while, then the relationship will be amazing.
2006-10-04 09:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 1st element you're able to do is enable bypass of the Fairytale concept that there is taken under consideration one of those element as your "one genuine love". that doesn't exist. genuine love exists, yet what you're thinking of isn't the comparable element. 2d, while you're no longer happy with the dating and he's lacking a number of the significant features you like in the guy you spend your existence with, then that would assist you recognize something. Now, this is not going which you will get each and all of the flaws you're searching for in a extra robust half in one guy or woman, yet do no longer settle. If he's not what you're searching for now, there is not any reason to have confidence that 5 or ten years down the line he by surprise would be the guy you have constantly needed. existence does not artwork that way. in my opinion, i might end it. i may be direct, trouble-free, and bypass away no room for misinterpretation (persistant or no longer). tell him which you're no longer happy in the dating, and which you're searching for something extra. make beneficial he's conscious that it's not which you extremely desire him to alter to by some potential extra healthful you're suitable theory-approximately what a guy could be, yet which you will seem someplace else for what you like.
2016-12-08 08:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by minissale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find the right person there is no stress, arguments and paranoia and it is amazing.
2006-10-04 09:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea how long you have been in this relationship , but this is not the way love is supposed to be . I think you both need to sit down and talk it out . Maybe you would both be better off
separate .
2006-10-04 10:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they should be. If two people love each other they should find the goodness together.
People who really love each other feel angst when they are apart and they argue then. Try to spend more quality time together and be basking in those moments until you can be together again. Peace!
2006-10-04 09:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't found the right one then, it shouldn't be stressful and full of paranoia it should be wonderful and make you go all warm and fuzzy.
2006-10-04 10:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by ball_cathie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obvious in a relationship with the wrong person. Time for a change.
2006-10-04 09:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by Bantree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋