2006-10-04 09:33:48 · 20 answers · asked by patricia d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Great answers but I'm on hormone therapy, have a grown child who lives on her own, wonderful and patient husband, husband can work it well (when allowed), financially secure, have more toys than grandson (lol) existing trauma from childhood with mother's husband, been to dr's for this with no help, still seeking answers
2006-10-04 09:49:55 · update #1
A nice hot bath with a romance novel, a novel that gives a little detail and in no time you will be daydreaming of the very same thing that you were reading. Just a little stimuli. Good luck.
2006-10-04 09:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels like a jerk to me. easily his sex stress will decrease seriously from his early 20s to his 40s and a woman's regularly will boost round 30s... yet this should not be an excuse no longer to have sex with you... and having sex should not be on his words of ways regularly, at the same time as, or the position. I say that you adult adult males want a touch spicing up, possibly he's only "used to having sex, he's carried out it for 40 years you recognize" So attempt some thing extremely diverse, that'll turn him on. you recognize, recommend having sex in a public position, function play, tie him up etc... some thing to characteristic a touch form... Get a Play Toy, for your self, if he can't get you off adequate, there is not any good reason you could't have some exciting by skill of your self... Then bypass for a week or 2 devoid of having sex with him, because you do not opt for to. Make him opt for you extremely undesirable and enable him recognize what it sounds like...
2016-11-26 02:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well If your over stressed ,,, worried how your going to pay your bills .. Pay for the holidays .. DO all the housework .. Oh pay your high insurance due to the fact you live in a hurricane zone... Just had a new baby in the past year.. Have three kids that cant leave the door shut when your in the loo... Stress is the number one killer of a hot night. trying to rid the MENTAL STRESS is what your left with .. You should be kinda happy nothing physical is wrong. If your not happy with what the doctor said mabey you should find a new one ... If you feel its not a outside stressor ... find a second opinion... Many people suffer from this .
2006-10-04 09:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by zachs mom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 9 days from being 36 and I have a major sex drive.I have even had a total Abdominal Hysterectomy.I think we are all different.I heard the 30's are the women's high sex drive years.I don't know what would help other than doing it more.Its seems to me that when you have sex you want more sex.Are you depressed or over tired?Think of things that usually turn you on,a certain someone or situation.Us women are all about the leading up to it.
2006-10-04 09:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by kelliekareen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that is fairly normal. There is a cream that you can use that does help that. You could ask your Dr for it. It has no side effects but it does get ya going. Once you start enjoying sex again the rest kinda comes back on its own.
2006-10-04 09:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are no alone, Patricia, Not sure of your status, kids or no kids, You may consider hormone therapy, or first try some of the over the counter herbs and drugs available at most retail drug stores.
Additionally romance yourself up with sexy lingerie and romantic settings with your spouse or boyfriend. try watching some porn and see if you get visually stimulated. Try going to a spa.
Most of tlak with your man and communicate o him what if anything that turns you on and play that out.
2006-10-04 09:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your doctor say's you are physically fine, and there is no chemical imbalance, such as stress, depression, anxiety and so on and you are not on any medication, including birth control (depending on the birth control, it call totally kill your sex drive). Then I would say your just bored with your partner and don’t have the sexual desire for that person anymore. The brain is our largest sex organ. Get yourself in a position mentally to be sexually attracted to yourself first, once we can sexually satisfy ourselves, be it mentally or physically can we be sexually aroused by a partner.
2006-10-04 09:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by cubangoddess73 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your only 37 i say go to another doctor get a second opinion you don't want to be this way . Something has happened weather its medication your own or your inner body is doing something.
So yes go to another doctor or even a specialist
good luck
2006-10-04 21:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think I would be satisfied with that answer. There are plenty of ways to find out why. Early menopause, lack of hormones, depression, weight issues, self-esteem, poor relationship. post-traumatic issues. Press on to find a solution.
2006-10-04 09:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by funrdhdpeach 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well go browse through some porn on the internet there are some good ones that have free movie clips then just keep it on your mind works like a charm for me!
2006-10-04 09:37:58 · answer #10 · answered by Sandra 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋