I'm a 23 year old female who works and goes to college. I've never had a bf b4 and I have had a crush on a guy, that i see at work everyday,for the past 1 year and a half. I've known that he has a gf (whom he plans to marry someday) for a while, but I still have feelings for him. The thing is that I know that he is not really the guy for me since we are too different. He's Filipino and I'm American and plus we want different things out of life. Sometimes, I get the impression that he likes me too since he teases me and likes to be around me or look at me. But I know that he really loves his gf who is back in the Phillipines. I even told him how I felt about him and he said he luvs his gf very much. How do I get over him, especially since I see him everyday?
2006-10-04 10:04:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-04 10:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by NYC-BIGCAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realise that you have a crush on him because you are brought together since you work in the same place. There a millions of people and if you are brought together with other men, lik ein a sports club or another place like a bar, you would probably have a crush on another guy.
So, think about that and lok around for other men and don't be shy to walk up to a nice guy once in a while.
2006-10-04 17:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by Ronald K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep busy. that is the key, if there effections are not coming back to you don't allow yourself to get hurt. Your strong and beautiful. Realize that and don't allow it to cause you problems.
Picture him as a realitive if you have to so your not upset at work. Best thing to do is be strong.
juleette
2006-10-04 17:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep within the boundries and dont step over them---most girls have a set line they wont cross
2006-10-04 17:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋