Why do people treat something so wonderful and private, so casual and like a joke?
Whatever happend to people getting to know each other first? And actually caring for the person? Does no one realize it causes broken homes, therapy, disease, unwanted pregnancies, STD's , and a messed up society? or do you just not care?
2006-10-04 10:08:17 · 20 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not.
People just don't see it as something to do when you truly love someone, more as a selfish way to please themselves.
2006-10-04 10:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Amen sister, I totally agree with you. Sadly in today's society, sex is often presented as nothing more than a leisure activity. We are told that it should be enjoyed with as many partners as possible. Sex is about the total gift of oneself to another person just like a marriage commitment, that's why premarital sex is so wrong becuase it feels like marriage to the couple but when it ends it feels like a divorce. It's not natural for people to be that close,then break-up. A non-sexual revolution needs to occur cuz then there would be less heartches, unwanted pregnancies, STDS and AIDS.
2006-10-04 17:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People are like sheep, they follow other people. If talk of sex was unacceptable in public, look down upon before marriage like it used to, this would be such a huge issue as it is now, but as a society we have plastered it everywhere, TV, movies, magazines. And it is so common and accepted that people don't respect the idea of sex anymore. It's no longer thought of as something shared between two people who love each other, now it's more of a requirement to fit in society. However this is just the way I'm looking at it.
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2006-10-04 17:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by haley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They don't care.They are more concerned with fitting in and doing what everyone else is doing.I think men don't put a lot into corting anymore because women don't require that they do so.If you notice,back when men did actually cort women the women were not skantilly dressed and left a lot to the imagination,the men seemed to respect them more.Now in the days of "let it all hang out" women have the nerve to wonder why they are treated like tramps here for the sole pupose of filling someones sexual desires, Uh...Duh...maybe it has something to do with the fact that they act like whores! Don't ya think?
2006-10-04 17:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by girlqueen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People like you never cease to amaze me...this is NOT the 1950's!
Sex is NOT some magical, special thing, you do it because it feels good, and that's it. And if you really, honestly believe that it leads to broken homes, therapy, and a messed-up society, then you just might be the dumbest, most naive person I have ever had the misfortune of reading.
2006-10-04 17:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is normal and natural to have sex...
The feelings that revolve around it change in importance with every time its being done if different people are involved.
Guy 1: Has sex on a daily basis, different girls.
Guy 2: Has had sex once before in his life.
They both get married, which one would then place more inportance on sex?
Depends on the guy, it matters not on the quantity of it.
2006-10-04 17:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
where is it natural to have sex bieng private?
When aminals do it (and contrary to what the catholic church likes to blindly ignore despite all scientific evidence to the contrary we are animals) they do it outside.
Most species don't even form monogamous bonds. Sex is not private, the illusion that it is is a social custom created by overzealous religions that seek to control people.
2006-10-04 17:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WELL SEX IS NORMAL, but like like many people have said, god (for those who belive in him) created sex to express love...but he did not make create sex for sexual needs which is the cause of all thos diseases..i do care.. therefore thats how we express love.....SEX.
2006-10-04 17:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of people who care like me and hopefully you. But guys are just interested in sucking boobs and girls are interestedd in sucking *****.
2006-10-04 17:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by leila_park_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me sex is a way to become one with a person i love. I don't share my feelings with all people, but sometimes u need to talk about problems or to know if it's all ok with u.
2006-10-04 17:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by atena 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just thiz dayz people are so peverted n want a quicky ones in a while that s so wrong ur right cant they stick 2 mettin each other n then ..........
2006-10-04 17:11:06 · answer #11 · answered by Nancy R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋