its driving me mad.
my boyfriend comes home from work and we either have tea at mine or at his. if its at mine we have sex sometimes then go round to his and either i sit and go on the internet while he watches sky or its the opposite way round. then he drops me back at home at about 11pm or he stays at mine.
i can understand that he wants to chill after a day at work but its the same every night and im getting bored of it. we dont have much money at the moment but what else could we do?
please help im getting so bored of this nearly everynight. we get on really well but we just end up doing the same thing all the time. we have been together over 2 and a half years
2006-10-04 10:06:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, do something that sparks your interest or at least turns you on so. Go someplace you don' t always go and have sex. Just a thought. Don;t knock it until you try it you just might like it.
2006-10-04 10:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by Janice H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to break the routine. Dont' go to his after you've been at yours, or the other way around. Reintroduce datign and stuff like that. It's not going to be a lie, just somethign different. Suppose you call him and say whatever you can come up with, and if you can't meet up every day somewhere so be it. Start missing each other. Noone can know better your relationship than yourself, you can work something out. You are used to each other now, you know everything that's going to happen every day, of course there's not much of an excitement.
Text him, have a date. if he is busy make it over the weekend.
2006-10-04 17:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop seeing each other every night! Seriously if you just meet up say twice during the week, and once at teh weekend (or sumthin) you'll miss each other more and when you do see each other it'll be mpore soecial.
Make an effort to acually do something too - its too easy to fall into a boring routine
2006-10-04 17:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by Peadar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it the same at weekends?
are you both earning and saving for a house?
you say you have sex but don't sound very excited about it
do you both live alone or with parents?
to be honest you sound married like most of us on here
make the most of it babe...you say you have not a lot of money but me and wifey when we went through a really bad patch said ffook it an d went out out for a meal and had a really good night
2006-10-04 17:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by robert h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont see hime every night, you let himchill during the week, and go and do stuff with your mates. You'll be a lot happier, and the time you spend together will be much more enjoyable!!!
Its really important that you have your own time, doing the things that you enjoy
2006-10-04 17:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by thebear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make apoint of going out at least once a week to somewhere cheap and cheerfull like the cinema or a local resturant ,anything that will break you routine.
Or you could try humping in public places ;)
2006-10-04 17:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand what u saying babe but at least u see your boyfriend everynite.
my girl is in america at mo and she i dont see her untill i go see her november. then after that i got to wait till after christmas then she be bk with me.
anyway enough of my life lol.
i would say go out to local pub or something have a drink relax or something like that. sorry if i not helped much but hope u find something to do soon.
takecare.
2006-10-04 17:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by alan h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do some activities together. Like a walk in the park, eat ice cream, go to the mall, watch movies, play games, that is what I do with my bf...there is much more stuff..
2006-10-04 17:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by LadyXSakura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join a swingers club
2006-10-04 17:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by Sir Nickle Barsteward 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋