Family & Relationships - 4 October 2006

my school years were mostly hell and of misery in being picked on. yet i fondly remembered some of the happiest moments i experienced. i had two best friends back then: one was a guy called anton who came all the way from liverpool, and the other was a black kid named andrew. both were male, but we had so much fun back in the early 90s. they were very friendly, funny and a joy to be with. of course, i never once was attracted to either of of them; we were very young and the fact that i was the only female who hanged around with them didn't bother them at all. i think it helped that we had the same interests: eg, football and other stuff like that. it annoyed me that some girls would come up to me say stupid things like 'do you fancy them?'. which was a load of bull. but anton and andrew were and still are my best friends

alas, do you still keep in touch with your old school pals? how strong was your friendship back then? do you have any fond memories? what things did you get up to?

2006-10-04 10:39:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so mean, it is really getting to me.

I have now & in the past devoted so much time on here (and in my life) to helping people with knowledge I have about health, etc...going way beyond the call of duty in investing my time..sometimes spending an hour or two hours answering or researching something for strangers on here..and I am so down by the crulety expressed especialy in the political section.

Please say something nice..I am started to feel depressed about the turn society is taking fo the worse.

2006-10-04 10:39:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm 20 years old. my b/f and i have been dating almost 2 years, but for the past like 6 months i've come to realize i dont love him as much as i probably should. he wants to marry me but there are so many things i dont like about him, like he has no goals or abitions in life to further his education. the thing is i'm scared if i break up with him i'll never find any one again, this is not fair to him but i dont want to hurt him. any advice on how to go about this?

2006-10-04 10:38:56 · 35 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Singles & Dating

They be stertchen by putting both arms in the air and leaning back while their tight shirts show their belly and alittle more. All this while im in class. they double team me by doing it at the same time. i cant help but not get a erection. Even when i dont look i still get one. Then they look under my desk as i try to rearange Chad Jr. Down there so they dont see it.

What should i do. I know they do this on purpose cuz they do it 2 times a day sometimes they just stare at My jock. And i am not going to tell them to stop because they are hot. So im probly going to ask them out seeing as i mite be able to get them in bed. Maybe at the same time. :)

But if i dont do this what should i do!!!

2006-10-04 10:38:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But the jealousy I was trying so hard to control in the beginning is slowing creeping up on me.......... and I find myself questioning my husband on every little thing he does- and I can't stand it! I know I trust him, and I know he is honest with me.....But I can't help it! I don't want to make him miserable, I just want to make sure he's still in love with me, just as much as I am with him.

2006-10-04 10:38:20 · 23 answers · asked by candy- capped 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have tried to talk to her and sit her down we have both opened up and talked better then ever before. but then she would return to her nothers and forget all we talked about

2006-10-04 10:38:06 · 5 answers · asked by buddabear38 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay sometimes he smiles at me only if i smile first he stares alot. my mom says she sees him staring in a daze. even my dad says its obviouse he likes me. but sometimes i really cant tell when i was 9 he told my friend he liked me and last year too. so i dont he hits me sometimes play fight . but then again he talks to other gurls so im confused. he makes lil comments im 15 hes 16

2006-10-04 10:38:01 · 3 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my partner are looking to get married in Las Vegas next year and was just wondering if anyone here has done so. We want to go on our own and it be pretty simple really. Thanks

2006-10-04 10:37:04 · 19 answers · asked by Amy A 2 in Weddings

I gave this shy boy a note telling him I like him! I asked my friend to get the note from him but the boy wants me to talk tohim! So what should I say I want to know if he likes me too! But I am shy myself so what do I do?

2006-10-04 10:36:48 · 10 answers · asked by Tracy h 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriends dog is maybe going to die...what should I do?

2006-10-04 10:36:39 · 7 answers · asked by greener 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend's boyfriend teases her by calling her a s**t/b***h. She doesn't like it but he does because he thinks it's funny. She has a son with him and is pregnant with another baby. What should she do?

2006-10-04 10:36:35 · 11 answers · asked by *Mrs. Watson* 2 in Singles & Dating

I cheated on my wife with a lady.I was so fond of this lady.We went together on holiday.(I told my wife that I was going to visit my family in another country).
When I return from the holiday,I couldn't take my mind off this lady.The way we had sex was uncomparable to the one with my wife.My wife used to starved me with sex at home.Always wiping when we were having it,stating that it always painful (for more than 5 years!).
After returning from the holiday,I started withdrawing my affection for my wife unconciously,always thinking about the other lady.Till my wife feed up of the situation and asked me for a divorce.
We are now busy with the divorce.I realised that sex is important in a relationship,but there are other important elements as well.I didn't want to give up my marriage because my wife is bad on bed,she is a good woman in other aspects.She doesn't want me back because she finds my attitudes not good enough.Can telling her that I cheated on her worsen her hatred for me?

2006-10-04 10:36:07 · 41 answers · asked by devout_kindhonest 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've heard Sweden has beautiful women...but I know feminism runs rampant over there so that has to be taken into consideration. Oh and the U.S. is out of the running because of all the fat women we have.

2006-10-04 10:36:00 · 16 answers · asked by Joeschmo 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I were having sex and were engaging in some foreplay a couple of days ago. She decided to give me a handjob and pulled the foreskin too far back and it tore slightly. I'm not curcumsized, but I can pull back the foreskin over the glans with no problem. Should I put anything on it? Neosporin? How long before it heals? Should I consider circumcision?

2006-10-04 10:35:59 · 2 answers · asked by Mimo 2 in Singles & Dating

flip them up foreva?lol

2006-10-04 10:35:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my shoes is new but they already sqeak wheni walk so there any way to stop it

2006-10-04 10:35:38 · 8 answers · asked by chris 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes i have trouble Keeping my penis hard during sex and i was wondering if they was a alternative to me going get a prescription for Viagra that i can buy and that really works?

2006-10-04 10:35:32 · 9 answers · asked by Slim504 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy....My Boyfriend
But I also like this other guy,
They are both really HOT.....But I don't want to hurt either one of their feelings....What should I do?

2006-10-04 10:35:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend has a serious drinking problem, but manages to hide it from everyone and he is very functional. Works for the railroad x 35 yrs, owns his own home, friendly to everyone. No outward signs. His family all acted so surprised when he nearly died from drinking about 3 yrs ago. The doctor asked if he drank and no one knew he did or would admit how serious it was. When I asked him if his dad drank when he was growing up, he denied it 3 yrs ago.
He told me about a month ago,in a moment of drunkeness, his grandpartents had to drive searching for his dad from bar to bar because he had no drivers license and his mom could not find him. She had a bunch of kids at home and he was the 2nd oldest.
Now, I think he has passed it down, and his son has lost his drivers license and gets so drunk he becomes mentally unstable and starts talking crazy. He is 28 and still lives at home and cannot get out on his own because he drinks so much.
Do you think its hereditary?

2006-10-04 10:34:54 · 8 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

She's disappointed and hurt that he barely acknowledged her special day. He went to work at a neighbor's house at night instead while she stayed there waiting for him. She's taken him out on his birthday but he doesn't reciprocate. He doesn't believe in giving a card & money either at weddings that he's invited to.
What should she do??? She's 25 and he's 31. They've been going together for 2 yrs.
He doesn't have his own place at his age yet. Lives with a bunch of guys and it doesn't look like he will change real soon in the near future. She'd like for him to start looking for his own space/house but...(?) nothing checking there either(!)
Need some good advice here.

2006-10-04 10:34:02 · 17 answers · asked by hillaryc59bc 4 in Singles & Dating

I dont want a divorce. I love my wife and want to be a special person to her like her family is and to me as well. Yes I know some times you have to just let go, but to me she is special and to me I feel whole. Without her, I am lonely, sad and feel like I am missing something(my best friend). I just want to be as important to her as her family. Yes we have all made very big mistakes, but she has forgiven them and moved on with them as if nothing ever happened.

2006-10-04 10:33:06 · 12 answers · asked by buddabear38 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't do as much sexual activities as I want to with my girlfriend because recently she's been denying sex. I've been feeling real down lately because I'm denied sex with the woman I love. It goes deeper than this.

2006-10-04 10:32:56 · 9 answers · asked by Just_Asking 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think its true....

If a girl is only seeing a guy for a couple weeks, and they have sex is the chase really gone?

2006-10-04 10:32:44 · 13 answers · asked by Little Miss 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well today is mine and johns 1 month nd he was supposed ot come over but now my mom has to go to work at 430 and my dad wouldn't be home at that time os john would of had to leave because my parents dont trust me home alone with him which i dont blame them and i said ok w.e i was pissed but yea nd thenjohn couldn't get a ride till 4 so there wouldn't be a point and so i made my mom say she will pick him up after schoola nd she was gonna but then he wouldn't come because it would just be an hour in a half that he would come over nd he would be alone in the car with my mom
like he never wants to come over r anyhtign unless it's more than 2 hours
he says there's no point
shouldn't he want to spend time with me and no matter what ammount of time it is he should be happy with it i dont knwo i would
any advice on how to confron thim that this hurt me and that he should want to see me no matter how much time we have

2006-10-04 10:32:30 · 1 answers · asked by nickiejh 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

The best one gets the pleasure of being told theirs was the best!! :P haha!!

Have fun! I know I will;)

2006-10-04 10:31:51 · 6 answers · asked by Courtney 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-04 10:31:22 · 3 answers · asked by Shelia R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she is married to this guy he lives miles away from her and people keep calling him to tell him things about her and he is calling her all the time telling her what they are saying and some of it is not true she asked me if i was in her shoes what would i do and i do not have the answer and he said that he will kill his self and she will be to blame. So what advice should i give her.

2006-10-04 10:31:02 · 30 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 20, and i want to know where i should go to find hot single 30 to 40 year old women to sleep with, are there any online sites, or any places that tend to have women that would be interested

2006-10-04 10:30:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"A guy will think about the girl who likes him often, even if he doesn't feel the same way."

Any insight?

2006-10-04 10:30:39 · 15 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

I have reunited with my highschool sweetheart. We have been seeing each other for a year now. He has a girlfriend and I have a significant other. He has told me he's never stopped loving me and I know I've never stopped loving him. Lately he's been acting like he's too busy for me. He used to call and send txt messages, now he says he doesn't like to txt anymore he wants me to just call. Sometimes he doesn't answer when I call but I always answer the phone whether its 2 or 3am in the morning. Now he's incarcerated I feel that maybe I should be as cold hearted to him as he has been to me just to let him see how it feels. But then again I'm not that kind of person. What should I do? (Confused)

2006-10-04 10:30:26 · 3 answers · asked by TJ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships