please say something nice to cheer me up..I have been on here reading and getting responses and people are?

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so mean, it is really getting to me.

I have now & in the past devoted so much time on here (and in my life) to helping people with knowledge I have about health, etc...going way beyond the call of duty in investing my time..sometimes spending an hour or two hours answering or researching something for strangers on here..and I am so down by the crulety expressed especialy in the political section.

Please say something nice..I am started to feel depressed about the turn society is taking fo the worse.

thank you candygirl and mike for your kind words..you guys all made me smile.

bold one you are very sweet to try to cheer me up ad for the kind things you said. I so appreciate all of you.

Dr mom--I have been told I am thoughtful a lot, I deeply care about people and always want to help people..

It is harder when you are sensitive, emotional, and very caring. Yes, I guess it's true some people are mean and jerks and isn't geting better; but there are certainly good people in the world (although a long less than there used to be).

I know I have to learn to blow off their comments more or then they get what they wanted...to upset me and punish me for having a different view....still it's hard for me to do that..I take everything so to heart.

I have started reporting people more..some guy told a 16 year old talking about killing himself and having pills and his problems with his family to "go ahead there are plenty of losers to take your place"..OMG that was not only downright mean but dangerous..if the person really was suicidal and I reported him and wrote a good little thing about it that I sent to administrators. I spent 1 1/2 hours writing a

very sensitive and helpful and kind "book" to him, and asked him to copy it (unfortunately they removed the whole thread and I don't even know if he got to read it. I think he went t bed (he said people on here got him through when I was still typing it so that is good I really hope he did read it or copy it..I was very concerned about this person It had some good links and I was hoping it would be on here if everyone else felt that way too, but it is gone and hopefully that awful person who goaded him in his hour of need..

Answer 1

Not everyone in the world is as thoughtful as you are. Some people couldn't care much about anything. Some people here are very immature, and refuse to grow up, even at the expense of others feelings. That is the way this world has become. It is best not to let it get to you. It is hard because you are such a caring person, and all you want is the cruelness to just go away. The sad thing is, it is never going to just go away.
Just keep in mind the that there are still some good people in this world and if you let all these jerks get to you, then you are going just make yourself miserable and you will let them win.
Thank you for going through the work that you do to help people, that you don't even know.

Answer 2

You can't let others ignorance get to you just remember that you are answering these questions because,you truly care about other people keep it up and you will feel all of the joy because you have made someones day

Answer 3

hey cheer, don't let those mean answers get you down, i think it's so cool of you that you actually care about people and the questions that they ask here and, spend you spend so much time trying the help them. that's awsome. they don't really know how great it is to have a person like you here that would devote your time to help them with honest answers. so cheer up ok

Answer 4

I don't know what else to say other than I'm so sorry you feel this way.