my friend's boyfriend teases her by calling her a s**t/b***h. She doesn't like it but he does because he thinks it's funny. She has a son with him and is pregnant with another baby. What should she do?
2006-10-04 10:36:35 · 11 answers · asked by *Mrs. Watson* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
drop kick him... okay so maybe I shouldn't advocate violence. Too bad, it would have been fun.
She should talk to him, tell him that she doesn't like it and that if he has any regard for her feelings he should stop.
Ideally he would be able to put himself in her shoes and know that he wouldn't like it if someone called him A$$WIPE of D!CKFACE or anything worse ALL THE TIME.
He should also understand that's not the proper way to talk around kids. While kids will learn those words and more it doesn't mean that he is the one that should teach it... there's far better stuff he could teach (unless of course those are the limits of his mental capacity).
If he is not able to understand that, she should move on (as hard as it may be)... the guy is not worth her time or efforts and possibly he is more trouble than anything else.
2006-10-04 10:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a prick..
it just shows you, you give a man alittle respect and loyalty and they think there a king that treat you any which way.....
Listen if that were me, I could go the childish way out and call him something that relly hurt him and affended him as to making me understand thats how it feels, or your friend can be a strong women and stand up and say stop disrespecting her, and start acting like the father of his children and the man who wanted to be with me, and the guy I fell inlove with!!!...
It might help, and if it does not, then she simply needs to give him the cold shoulder until he starts acting right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111111111111
2006-10-04 10:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by Christine O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should talk to him because her children shouldn't be around all that calling women out their names even if hes just playing her son is going to think it's ok to call girls that and if he doesn't stop she should leave him.
2006-10-04 10:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing she should do is dump his sorry *ss. Does he say that in front of their son ?? Is this the way she wants her son to grow up ?? thinking its ok for his mom to be called a sl*t and a b*tch ?
2006-10-04 10:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should work on finding herself and her selfwoth, as a woman, mother, and grown *** adult! aint no man good enough to put urself down by letting a man disrespect u and aint no situation that could come up on u that would be harder than putting up w that **** that u couldnt handle, BELIEVE ME!! find ur strength and be there for ur mom prying all along the way, but also, learn from her, too.
2006-10-04 10:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it or leave and hit him with child support...
a women should not be treated that way if the other person knows it hurts them whether it is joking or not
2006-10-04 10:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by turner32542 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesnt like it she shud tell him&it isnt a joke!
2006-10-04 10:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by soft heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him ist not allways about what you want or what ammuses him you could have later on have to be chosin him or her so dump him now before your friend dumps you
2006-10-04 10:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to tell him to start acting mature and if he doesn't it's over.
2006-10-04 10:39:55 · answer #9 · answered by pgenius3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she should talk to her bf and she should tell him that he is hurting her by calling her those things and ask him to PLEASE stop it
2006-10-04 10:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋