I dont want a divorce. I love my wife and want to be a special person to her like her family is and to me as well. Yes I know some times you have to just let go, but to me she is special and to me I feel whole. Without her, I am lonely, sad and feel like I am missing something(my best friend). I just want to be as important to her as her family. Yes we have all made very big mistakes, but she has forgiven them and moved on with them as if nothing ever happened.
2006-10-04 10:33:06 · 12 answers · asked by buddabear38 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I answered your first question but again I want to encourage you that you can do it! She is your soul mate. Take her in your arms to night and tell her that you love her. I have had problems in the past with putting my own family ahead of my husband and I had many arguments with my husband because of this. We have come through this together and I have come to realize that he is the most important thing in my life. If you follow some of the advice in my first answer then I'm sure that she will come to see that you are all she needs and she will become less dependent on her family.
2006-10-04 10:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So take the time and talk to her, with a no phone rule while discussions continue. let her know everything that you feel and are going through here. If you haven't told her these things, she may have no idea what's up. Then have at least one date night each week, no interuptions. Try joining a group of couples and making new friends in the process. Your church may have a class or two or have suggestions of where to go to find these. And of course talking to a counselor will help woth the communication emmensely.
2006-10-04 17:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by Krys M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what mistakes you talking about. To cheat on your wife (if you done so) is not very good at all and depends on the person, some can't live with people after that.
But if she lost love to you, you can't stop her and make her love you again. You can't make person live with you without love, they will feel unpleasant, unhappy and no good at all. Better if you lovge her, let her go (I feel for you man, sorry to hear).
I hope evrything works out better than divorce but if not let it go, its the best way. If you love her, let go.
Wolf.
2006-10-04 17:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by lone_wolf_time_to_change 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why the depression , if you are painting us such a pretty picture now? If you are not as important as her family then you NEED even more counseling.
2006-10-04 17:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So whatever the troubles might be just worked them out... If you love your wife then stay.
2006-10-04 17:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find your peace with God or your higher power and then find your peace within yourself and it will all work it self out..
2006-10-04 17:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by skawp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so keep the slate clean from here on out,you know what you want right? so do it.
2006-10-04 17:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then work things out
2006-10-04 17:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a question.
2006-10-04 17:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what is the question?
2006-10-04 17:35:47 · answer #10 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋