I like this guy....My Boyfriend
But I also like this other guy,
They are both really HOT.....But I don't want to hurt either one of their feelings....What should I do?
2006-10-04 10:35:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Arrange a threesome
2006-10-04 10:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no responsibility to the other guy for hurting his feelings but you do have responsibility to your boyfriend's feelings. So you should either dump your boyfriend because you aren't that into him anymore or you should learn some self control and stay away from the other guy. And this other guy should be able to take rejection from a girl, especially if she already has a girlfriend.
Let me tell you that you don't want to date a man that is into a woman who will cheat on her boyfriend with him. He's not looking for a long term relationship, he's looking for sex because he knows that if you're cheating on your boyfriend now, you'll cheat on him if he's ever in that position so he's not looking to be in that position. Men don't make committments to cheaters.
2006-10-04 17:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, does the 2nd guy have feelings for you? Either way, you have to choose who you want to be with. You can't keep leading people on, if you are no longer interested with them. You end up playing with their emotions and your own. In the end you will be hurting both of them if you don't make a decision of what you want. Goodluck.
2006-10-04 17:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which do u think u would be happier with. If u r with a guy just because u think that he is hot then, u r not going to be happy for a long time. I personally think that u should choose the guy that u would be happier with and who will treat u right.
2006-10-04 17:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by *Mrs. Watson* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ignorant comments and remarks?!?!?!?!?!?
You post was ignorant; the only thing you can tell us to help you decide which is a better guy is "they are both hot".
I say go with the hot one; my answer makes as much sense as your question. Enjoy :)
2006-10-04 17:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will meet many people in life that you will be attracted too and vice versa. If your b/f treats you well and you are happy with him, don't mess things up by dumping him for someone else. Never base going out with someone because they are "hot" it's what's on the inside of a person that counts.
2006-10-04 17:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My OPO....if you are thinking of another guy while you have a b/f then you don't need to be with your b/f...you aren't ready for a relationship. There has be a reason you chose your b/f over this other guy. but then again from this brief question you seem to only like them for their looks....so why care about their feelings? just an observation from this very vague question
2006-10-04 17:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop stringing them both along.
Find out which one you have the most in common with. Which one makes you laugh, and if you could only call one of them, which one would it be?
Decide. Then have a nice conversation with the other one to let him go, nicely.
2006-10-04 17:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by jt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell you this but you have to choose. you should make a list of both of them and who you like to talk or hang with the most and add it all up. one of them may get hurt but its best you tell them before its too late and they find out on their own
2006-10-04 17:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by aisha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean write out your dislikes and likes about them both... let your heart make the choice... you can only have one, if you don't want to play the field and deal witht them both...
2006-10-04 17:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to fight for you. Whoever wins, gets the booty. Just like in the olden' days with princesses and dwarves.
2006-10-04 17:43:00 · answer #11 · answered by x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋