Family & Relationships - 4 October 2006

Ok so here it goes... Happend back in March so no hard feelings, just wondering what people think really happend.

OK, so I was with this girl for maby a month or 2 everything was alright, nothing crazy good but ok. Her "bestfriend" from high school comes back home for spring break and she plans on going to the beach with him and a few friends. We had sex the morning before she left, and shes gone for a week. She comes back and goes to the ER room and has a bladder infection. I didnt see her till a few days she had been back, she was acting kinda different. I asked her did she cheat? She getts all mad and has an attitude and swears to god she didnt cheat. Few weeks later she gets with the dude. Now the reason im asking so late is because somewhere in that story she got pregnant, so the kid could possible be mine, but the dates are about a month off. He left town as soon as she told him, a few months later she calls me and tells me shes having my kid.

What do you think?

2006-10-04 11:45:28 · 23 answers · asked by Rob 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 16 and I have a hard time carrying casual conversation. There are often long pauses and usually I have no idea what to say. I'm a quiet and reserved person around people I don't know very well, and often times when I see someone around my age, I'll avoid them because I never can think of anything to say which makes it awkward. I'm close with my two sisters and I can talk fine with them, but with people I don't know it's hard for me to think of something to say. My mind always draws a blank. I don't know what to do. Help!

2006-10-04 11:44:05 · 10 answers · asked by Jade64 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

When my husband came to me his parents in CHICAGO had no Idea he was comming to stay. After he called them and told them he wasn't going back, I noticed the way his parents treated me and talked to me. Now his mom has passed away and still his dad calls me and tells me bad things. I feel like I'll never get along with those people even though I want to. My husband refuses to defend me when it comes to them being mean to me..and I've spoken to him about it several times. He's not a horrible husband he just has his flaws like everyone else. What should I do about this specific issue!?

2006-10-04 11:43:38 · 17 answers · asked by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my mom and my biological dad divorced when I was 2 yrs. old then she began dating my stepdad and they married when I was 5 yrs. old.
Which was when I was in 1980 and they have been married for 26 yrs.,but my mom tells all her friends that they have been married for 33 yrs.
When I do mention stuff about my Aunt's and Grandma from my real dad's side to my mom's friends, my mom says "Oh they are just friends" and that is a lie.
can anyone explain to me why she does this?
Serious answers only please.

2006-10-04 11:42:21 · 10 answers · asked by sandiegogal2002@yahoo.com 3 in Family

I threatened to call the police on my mother. She snatched the phone away from me. Dialed 911 and then handed the phone to me. Then she said "tell them I'll be waiting for them". Has anyone else hadthis happen to them?

2006-10-04 11:42:18 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

its a hot guy very hot

2006-10-04 11:42:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, well lately my boyfriend has been bitter lately. like last night we got ina huge fight and i was just asking him what this word mean? (b/c i was applying for this job.) and he asked why im lookin for jobs in the city while i can look around my town. to save money and stuff.. well i told him i was just applying not like i was gonna workt here. so. anyways, he thinks i have no path in the future to make a career and stuff and it was really hurtful. and im trying my hardest to make hiom happy and im looking for a job at the same time. what should i do. he told me that if i dont find a job soon or anything. he's gonna leave me. then thought of it just kills my heart inside. and i am looking for jobs around my town. but its not easy just trying to apply and not get a job right on the spot....??? what should i say to him to make him realize that im trying?

2006-10-04 11:40:55 · 14 answers · asked by beth-y 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 11:40:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my girl for some time now and we have already talked about marriage. We are not stupid young kids in a hurry or anything, this is just a serious question:

I want to ask her to marry me, but i am debating on asking for her parents consent first. Her dad likes me but her mother does not. So im afraid if i do ask they'll say no, cause the mom wears the pants in the family. But either way I'll still ask her, just wanted to know what u ppl think.

2006-10-04 11:40:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bf & i hav been goin out 4 a while. when he dropped me off @ my house, i was about 2 kiss him but he pulled away. i kinda want 2 do it again but im afraid hes gonna think im 1 of those peopl hu r really fast in the begining. how do i get him 2 kiss me? (btw, im kinda 1 of those impatient people. i want 2 make out w/ him asap)

2006-10-04 11:39:48 · 18 answers · asked by island_girl_031 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey, I don't mean a "Ben Stiller in Dodgeball" type of mustache, but a slight outline dark enough to be noticeable. Even if the girl is otherwise beautiful?

2006-10-04 11:39:25 · 9 answers · asked by Twisted&Demented 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 11:39:08 · 22 answers · asked by Jacks036 5 in Marriage & Divorce

And whats a good way to flirt with a girl?

2006-10-04 11:39:01 · 9 answers · asked by Kasra 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 11:38:28 · 2 answers · asked by bina 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i am a bit ashamed to admit this... but theres this girl (or should i say a woman) that is really great... older 12 yrs than me... and we get along really good... and care for each other... and we really do like each other... is this kind of relationship okay?

2006-10-04 11:37:53 · 23 answers · asked by lega 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this question will sound shocking. But I just don't know how to deal with these feelings. I thought I'd "bounce them off" you strangers before I do anyhting else.

2006-10-04 11:37:36 · 22 answers · asked by Josephine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently went to visit my family in Panama for the first time. While down there, I met somebody, but he can't speak English, and I can't speak Spanish. I mean, I like this boy a lot, and my cousins say he asks for me constantly. This boy has got me going crazy. I can't even get a good relationship going because I want to be with him. I've learned a lot of spanish since then, and I am frightened to call him, what should I do, what should I say? SOMEBODY HELP ME!!!

2006-10-04 11:37:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found this site www.diamondringforever.com You think this is a good place to look for my 6 month girl friend an engagement ring? Any help will be really helpful.. Thank You...

2006-10-04 11:36:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-10-04 11:35:58 · 1 answers · asked by Shy 28 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

You love your wife dearly, you've cheated before, a long time ago. Now you find out that she's been cheating on you with her very first lover. PLS NOTE: This is the first time she cheats (well as far as you know or think)
You want to forgive her. You love her. You just can't stop thinking about it.
My Big Question is: How do you let go of these thoughts?

2006-10-04 11:35:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have roomates that do not never like to clean behind themselves and I have went to them woman to woman to tell them that I do not appreciate it and it seems like they still do what they want to do

2006-10-04 11:35:55 · 7 answers · asked by Juicy 2 in Friends

I talk to girl "a" and to girl "b" but just as friends but i like girl "b" i told girl "a" i like girl "b" (stupid of me, i know)and now girl "b" knows i like her and probably thinks i only talk to her because i like her and im interested in her,im not sure if girl "b" likes me or not,what i wanna know is what do you girls usually do when you talk to somebody as friends then find out they like you? what do you do when your not attracted to the person? what do you do when you are attracted to the person?

2006-10-04 11:35:48 · 8 answers · asked by XZELSOR 3 in Singles & Dating

The time was i believe 1522-1542

2006-10-04 11:35:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Someone I live with is constantly asking me very personal questions I do not want to answer and they are very persistant and pushy about it. How do I make them stop?

2006-10-04 11:34:34 · 28 answers · asked by East 12th Street 2 in Family

me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 months an we have talked about picking a song but i like punk/ hip hop and he likes hip hop or hard rock. Any body got anygood ideas?

2006-10-04 11:33:30 · 12 answers · asked by Cate 1 in Singles & Dating

Everyone I love is leaving me. My best friend, my sister, all the people I know. The only people I love that haven't left me are my kids and they don't have a choice. What do I do. Help me please.

2006-10-04 11:32:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She told me that she wants to be my love slave...quite frankly, I am terrified. She follows me in her car wherever I go...and once when I was using the urinal in a public restroom she followed me in and started chatting me up! I've tried telling her that I'm not interested, but she seems to think I'll change my mind...what can I do? Should I bribe her with food, maybe throw a steak at her and run the other way? Or should I join an exercise club (at least I know she won't follow me in there)? Please help!

2006-10-04 11:32:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Interesting note in CA. of you die owing back child support and your only family is the child you owe support for, that child inherits the debt as part of your estate, and if the child is a minor, then the debt becomes the responsibility of the child’s living parent or guardian).

2006-10-04 11:31:44 · 4 answers · asked by desertflower 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm 23 and my momis39, we went to the bar the other night and she made out with two guys my age plus she has a boyfriend! what should i do?

2006-10-04 11:31:08 · 17 answers · asked by laura d 2 in Family

He is interested in both and is having a hard time deciding. He was a Marine and is in school now for electrical engineer. Yesterday the city called him to interview for police officer.

2006-10-04 11:30:43 · 10 answers · asked by taylor 1 in Other - Family & Relationships