Family & Relationships - 4 October 2006

I’m 24 and have just started my career. I've been dating a girl for four months now. She’s my first “official” girlfriend. She is the only girl that I’ve ever kissed. She is also the only girl that I’ve ever had sex with. My only other ‘sexual experiences’ are lap dances at strip clubs.

I really believe that this girl can be ‘the one’.

She’s been with two other guys before me and it really, really bothers me for some reason. She was in a five-year, on-and-off, relationship with the first guy. She described her sexual encounter with the second guy as a “one night stand”. She is apologetic for her sexual past, but that’s only mildly comforting.

Is it normal to be this bothered by her sexual past? Yes, I do realize that it could be a lot worse than it is. And yes, I am also a pretty jealous guy.

What do I need to do or think in order to get over her sexual past? Any input would be most appreciated.

2006-10-04 12:25:06 · 23 answers · asked by Bob_123 2 in Singles & Dating

you hate someone just b/c they're pretty!

2006-10-04 12:24:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We don't have alot of $ to spend, but I want it special with my parents there and friends. My second marriage was standing in a tee shirt and jeans in front of juctice of the peace and my family wasn't there. They seem to like this man alot plus have more respect for me now, plus i want my last to be special and in my memories forever! Who do I call first? HELP!!!

2006-10-04 12:24:26 · 8 answers · asked by wetherbeemary 2 in Weddings

i need 2 know!

2006-10-04 12:24:16 · 1 answers · asked by Carolinex3™ 5 in Singles & Dating

I've already posted my problem. now let me make it more clear.I was in love with this girl for more than 1.5 years. We used talk lot n lot. We met in chat. Became friends. then lovers. She is located in a different state. Everything was fine. Suddenly i felt a drastic change in her behavior. She started avoiding me. I thought it was because of some misunderstanding. Later only i understood that She fell in love with her ex for the second time. They were talking like husband and wife for 20days. Later she ditched him. She has made him believe that she's not in love and we were jus friends. after 20days God knows what made her avoid him totally.initially she was lieing to me that it was his mistake and she never loved him.only after one month only she accepted that she fell in love and it was just an infactuatoin. Now she says she needs me at any cost. at times she also blackmails me that she'll suicide. im ready to forgive but really cant forget those 20days. im confused......

2006-10-04 12:23:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-04 12:23:17 · 8 answers · asked by Brenda J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-04 12:22:18 · 11 answers · asked by Noble 4 in Family

I had a crush on this guy in the 8th grade but he was in 7th. His birthday is May 10th, which is almost a year younger and that he was going to another high school as me. but its magnet schools. But a year passed in high school and my sophomore year, I saw him on a bus at my school which went to his school. He always sits on the side where I walk by. Should I make him acknowledge my presence? And what do I do?

2006-10-04 12:21:35 · 10 answers · asked by mel 3 in Singles & Dating

hehe that reminds me of the AXE commercials

2006-10-04 12:21:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 12:20:42 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said he likes me and i like him....he kinda acts like he likes me in private than in public he acts like he doesn't even knows me!! what should i do??

2006-10-04 12:20:39 · 7 answers · asked by Starr 1 in Singles & Dating

He lied about eveything and I want revenge but I have to do it descretely, if you know what I mean.....
he put me in hospital twice and got away with it, what can i do legally outside of the courts!!!

2006-10-04 12:20:23 · 21 answers · asked by moomandymoo67 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how can u tell a guy u like him?
he keeps asking me who I like and I want to tell him especially cuz he says if I tell him who he likes he will tell me who he likes and I really want to date him, he is my best guy friend and we sit together in everyclass I mean he acts like he likes me, my friends say it is a given what should I do

2006-10-04 12:19:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't know why, but i find it quite ugly when the groom goes under her dress, and tries to get it with his teeth..especially when there are elder family members...?

2006-10-04 12:18:42 · 22 answers · asked by sasmallworld 6 in Weddings

does my co worker like me as more than a friend?
I just started working with this guy and he is always joking around and playing tricks on me and teasing me.



i am the only person he works with but he does talk to others but not in the manner he talks to me and he trys make a effort to be where i am. is he just social or what

2006-10-04 12:18:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What can you physically do to understand if a girl likes to booty dance/grind with you?

2006-10-04 12:18:17 · 7 answers · asked by d 2 in Singles & Dating

We can get into some pretty heated discussions, as most people, so in order not to have the perverbial "heart attack" while aggressively trying to get our points across, how can we go about it and be heard?

2006-10-04 12:18:08 · 9 answers · asked by basport_2000 5 in Marriage & Divorce

She complains and calls her brothers stupid. What should I do?

2006-10-04 12:18:02 · 21 answers · asked by Beth 2 in Family

I've been told I'm a resonablly decentlooking man but I havn't had any luck meeting women. Would like some help.

2006-10-04 12:18:01 · 4 answers · asked by Too Cool For Me 4 in Singles & Dating

My so called bestfriend who I trusted & would have given my right arm to took my friendship & used it to get closer to my wife. He tried to persuade her to have an affair with him. All I did was try to be a friend to him & he took my kindness as a weakness. Now I am still in shock that he would do that to me. He would come around me & act like nothnig happened. But my wife & his girl told me already what happened. He is a known liar & I know I will never get the truth out of him. Now I am filled in my head with what ifs & I am lashing out at my wife in a negative way. I am causing so much pain to her & torturing myself that I am pushing her away because I wonder if she is not telling me the whole truth. It feels like my world is crashing down. It happened over a 1 year ago. I was a happy guy before all this happened. I feel betrayed, embarrased, & emothinally stressed. I have nightmares every night about what could have happened the seconds I wasn't around them. I love her dearly.

2006-10-04 12:16:48 · 6 answers · asked by scorpio 1 in Friends

My friend who is a player is challenging me if I can steal his girlfriend from him and if I can steal the other girl he's hitting on. If I'm able to, he's going to pay me $30. The reason he challenged me is that I always brag about, how I can get any girl I want and I say "I just don't want to". The truth is, girls usually come to me, I used to just wait and a sweet will girl tell me they like me. Now its been a year since my last girlfriend. I don't know how I'll be able to steal his girls, I don't usually know how to get a girl. Whenever I try to come up to a girl I like and try to hit on her, it usually don't turn out well. Do you have any tips on how I can win? Can I and should I steal from a player?

2006-10-04 12:16:20 · 11 answers · asked by flipmode 2 in Singles & Dating

Hypothetically ..does anybody know what its called when a girl is attched to her father because of incest?

2006-10-04 12:16:08 · 8 answers · asked by * 1 in Family

I have been dating this guy for almost 2 years, on and off. We lived in the same city for 1 yr. I moved away and he continued to call me, just as friends. We would see each other every month as more than friends. I eventually plan to move back but not sure when. We decided a few months ago that we didn't want to be with anybody else. We had a plan to move in together as soon as I moved back. I'm still in the process of saving money and all that good stuff. In these past month we get into fights that escalate into us breaking up. Right now, we're in one. It's always the same thing. It's usually me saying, "we should end this." It lasts for a few days then its like nothing. Every time it hurts, it feels like it's for real and I'm getting sick of it. I really want to let him go. I just don't know how. Last thing he said to me..."I love you very much but we aren't as happy as we used to be." he gets so irritated he turns his phone off,won't answer until we cool down.

2006-10-04 12:15:56 · 3 answers · asked by nutritionist 1 in Friends

2006-10-04 12:14:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just started my diet last night. i live with my aunts and cousins.
before i started the diet, they said i am chubby, but when i started my diet, they said that i am slender. what should i do?
they keep on laughing and joking about my diet. my beloved one also did it. should i quit dieting? i am 18 years old, 110 lb and 5.1 ft.
why did they act like this??

2006-10-04 12:14:13 · 18 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My experience has shown me that Asian women are the best. That is only my experience and not necesarily the truth. Some may call me a **** or chink or Jap lover, but I disregard these thoughts and insecurities in people who say so. Of course there are good and bad in every race. What are your thoughts on this?

2006-10-04 12:13:40 · 15 answers · asked by JistheRealDeal 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 12:13:14 · 6 answers · asked by John K 1 in Weddings

What would be the best way to impress her? She unfortunatelly has a boyfriend, but i really like her!!! More than her boyfriend and any other guy would in this world put together!! aidez-moi!! (help me!)

2006-10-04 12:13:13 · 7 answers · asked by ohsnapps 2 in Friends

well if you just minding your own bizz and your boyfriend comes a long and you ask him a few things. and he say's don't worry about it and if you give him that look he would say why you looking at me lke i'm lien to you girl you know i love you

2006-10-04 12:12:54 · 14 answers · asked by wifyhere 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this this boy who I used to see all the time, because he lived in my neighborehood, but all of the sudden he stopped going outside, finally after about a month he went out side, but all he does is play soccer and now I like him, but I don't know what to talk to him about? we caht a lot on msn, but when he sees me he turn around right away. How can I start a real conversation with him face to face.he knows I like him.

2006-10-04 12:12:53 · 3 answers · asked by celinuchis90 3 in Singles & Dating