i just started my diet last night. i live with my aunts and cousins.
before i started the diet, they said i am chubby, but when i started my diet, they said that i am slender. what should i do?
they keep on laughing and joking about my diet. my beloved one also did it. should i quit dieting? i am 18 years old, 110 lb and 5.1 ft.
why did they act like this??
2006-10-04 12:14:13 · 18 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The choice to diet or not is yours. 110lbs for your age and height certainly isn't over-weight. If you think that you would feel better about yourself by losing a few pounds, then keep with it. You will get better results with regular exercise in addition to the diet. As to why they act like that, who knows. Has there been a weight change between when you started and during? If not, they are probably just saying it to be nice and encourage you. As to why they mentioned it in the first place is really just rude.
2006-10-04 12:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by CBB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just messing around with you to see if they can get a reaction. Take them out of the picture. Are you happy with the way you look? I think you're fine. If you do go on a diet, do it for you.
2006-10-04 19:19:58 · answer #2 · answered by ♥vegetarian♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need to be dieting thats pretty thin. they must have been just joking around when they said you were chubby (which that is really mean and not safe cause it could have caused you to have an eating disorder) but im guessing that they are just jealious of how thin you are.
2006-10-04 19:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by sarah m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, get a grip. You are FAR from chubby. Your height and weight are perfectly proportionate. Ignore your family. They are not being very nice at all. AND STOP THAT DIET!!!
2006-10-04 19:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by Casper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want to do to look the way YOU want to look. They are messing around with your mind to see if they can get you to do certain things, or to have certain reactions. Don't be suckered into this behavior. Tell them to get a life and maybe they should consider plastic surgery, or a diet themselves.
2006-10-04 19:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by RamsGod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do whatever makes you feel good.It wont hurt to loose a little bit but dont go crazy with it because your not really that big.As for your beloved tell that person "you know you love it"and then give your booty a smack.Lol!
2006-10-04 19:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they were being sarcastic with you, and telling you that you are chubby because you really aren't.You are at a great weight!! If you feel like you need to do something about your weight, just do some toning exersizes but don't loose any weight...
2006-10-04 19:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel happy about your weight why change it? If you feel chubby then diet. Its that simple. Go for your happiness not what others think
2006-10-04 19:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why listening to people maybe they are playing a joke on you and you are taking it serious exspeacialy family loks to me like you dont ned a diet youre fine the way youre so be happy.
2006-10-04 19:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by Dolores c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur weight and height are just fine, they are just jealous of u and wish they looked as good as u. drop the diet and eat a cake in front of them
2006-10-04 19:19:23 · answer #10 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋