What would be the best way to impress her? She unfortunatelly has a boyfriend, but i really like her!!! More than her boyfriend and any other guy would in this world put together!! aidez-moi!! (help me!)
2006-10-04 12:13:13 · 7 answers · asked by ohsnapps 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i MOST certainly don't plan to break her and her boyfriend up. my goal is for her to be happy.. my wish is for her to be happy WITH ME.. but i COMPLETELY understand on that not breaking her up with her man.. she's told me before, "there are times where i want to be with you forever, but at the same time, i feel as if i'm going to ruin our friendship." this was her reason for not stepping up to me. but i dont understand how a relationship will ruin a friendship!! i sincerely believe that it will just give it WAY more strength.. and she knows i'm not those guys that call every 20.3 seconds asking "Where are you? with who? what are you doing? who's he? blah blah" i know how annoying that is.. but i really want to have that feeling that her and i are FINALLY together after 7 years of friendship!!! :-(
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thanks to all that are helping me out!! i'm actually getting some GREAT feedback!
this is my first question.
2006-10-04 12:29:41 · update #1
If you like her, telling her isn't going to do anything for the situtation. You should wait until she is available to tell her. For now, just continue being the supportive friend you are. Best friends make the best couples. After a while she will break up with this guy. Then after a few months will be your time. She will remember all those times you were there for her. A good relationship is based on a good friendship.
2006-10-04 12:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait fr her to get tired of her boyfriend then come and save the day by being her prince, no be happy for her that she has a boyfriend. If you really love her you would be happy for her as long as she's happy no matter what, even if she'll never be with you. But you never know, best friends always end up getting married.
2006-10-04 19:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you care for her then you need to think of her happiness first, if she is happy with her current boyfriend and he is treating her well you need to live and let live... unless he is bad to her that is different but just becasue you think you should be with her is not a good enough reason... stay her friend if you like her that much but don't ruin her chances with this guy... i don't like to break a happy home... there are plenty of other people out there....
2006-10-04 19:16:48 · answer #3 · answered by Soonie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one, it really all depends on what this girl is like. But just generally speaking, try to wait till she's available, and if you want to impress her try thinking of something no other guy would do. And don't be afraid to go out of your way or even maybe give up a little dignity, like singing or something. I mean having the guts to do something semi-embarassing but really sweet is what impressing girls. Well at least me and my friends!
2006-10-04 19:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by Emmy dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just be you. Don't try to break up her and her boyfriend.. she won't appreciate you for that. I think you should just wait it out and see what happens. If her and her boyfriend break up, then you should tell her how you feel.. but I wouldn't suggest you do it before then. It'll only cause confusion.
2006-10-04 19:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a boyfriend, so back off. The best way to 'impress' her is just to be the best friend you claim to be. If you try to steal her away from her boyfriend, then you don't deserve her.
2006-10-04 19:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by pickled_leprechauns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what i would do is ask her do she feel the same way as i feel about her. If she doesn't then let her know how you feel slowly not all at once cause there would be to much she would be thinking about if you tell her all at once. and if it doesn't change let her know that you will be there for her.
2006-10-04 19:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by wifyhere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋