ok, well lately my boyfriend has been bitter lately. like last night we got ina huge fight and i was just asking him what this word mean? (b/c i was applying for this job.) and he asked why im lookin for jobs in the city while i can look around my town. to save money and stuff.. well i told him i was just applying not like i was gonna workt here. so. anyways, he thinks i have no path in the future to make a career and stuff and it was really hurtful. and im trying my hardest to make hiom happy and im looking for a job at the same time. what should i do. he told me that if i dont find a job soon or anything. he's gonna leave me. then thought of it just kills my heart inside. and i am looking for jobs around my town. but its not easy just trying to apply and not get a job right on the spot....??? what should i say to him to make him realize that im trying?
2006-10-04 11:40:55 · 14 answers · asked by beth-y 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't say anything. Just keep looking. If you show him that his opinion doesn't affect what YOU want, he'll back off.
2006-10-04 12:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur #1 problem is ur so-called bf.. he doesn't sound bitter, he sounds childish, immature and selfish... u need to start thinking bout u and what ur gonna do w/urself not things to do to make him stay with u or to please him.. u have to be happy w/urself before u can make someone else happy... if u wanna look in the city then do that don't let his opinions discourage u.. in the city is where the $$ is at and there r more opportunities.. don't allow him to dictate ur future either cause it sounds like that's what's going on.. maybe it's time for u to move on..
ur heart breaking is the least of ur worries.. do u rather him continue to put u down, and tell u that ur not gonna mount to anything when u know ur trying.. is that the kinda of bf u want a future with..
get w/the program and do what's best for u...
2006-10-04 18:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to dump this looser..a real man that cared for you would understand how hard it is to get a job and would stand by you instead of putting you down....if he doesnt notice how hard youre trying to do the right thing then this guy is just using an excuse to break up with you..so just dump him and find someone that loves you for you through thick and thin and who doesnt put you down or pressure you..
2006-10-04 18:45:40 · answer #3 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure you could do a lot better than this guy. He doesnt treat you very well, and while it may not feel like it now, if he did leave he'd be doing you a favour. He sounds like a bully and a control freak, you need to get out of this relationship. When you find a deent guy who treats you right, believe me , you'll wonder what you ever saw in this guy.
2006-10-04 18:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by ash1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ill tell u what to say.. u say don't let the door hit u in the A s s OK don't ever let any man try to control u or hurt u to me he sounds like a real freakin jerk who dosent deserve u. u are trying to better yourself and all he want s to do is put u down.. whatever go find another man (key word man ) and dont listen to that jerk off!
2006-10-04 18:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by michelle b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if hes not supporting u maybe hes not the right guy for u its just a ******* job hes needs to chill out with thats **** its not that serios but uu should try to talk with him first and if hes continuing to be a jackass leave him u need better support than that if he gets tight over a job in the city how will he support u for bigger decisions? hes ur bf not ur father,
2006-10-04 18:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by mandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok who cares take the job you can get a new one if you are having a fight there is going to break a heart you do it to him play the field you will find a new one ok you will be happy but he wont
2006-10-04 18:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by ecb_96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to put up with that. he's acting like a child. don't put up with this baby stuff. you do what YOU want to do, not what he wants to. does he live your life for you? NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
if he is not supporting you 100% then he is not worth it.
he shouldn't be telling you he's going to leave you just because you don't have a job. AT LEAST YOU ARE TRYING!!!
don't put up with this... you are better than this....way better. you are pretty, intelligent and young, you don't need to put up with all his issues.
good luck. hope i helped
2006-10-04 18:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by buffychik1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to have a career in anything unless you improve on your English writing skills, sweetie..........they are awful!!! Stop playing a victim to this man and do what you want to do. Oh, yes, one more thing......stop tyring to "make him happy" that is not your job.....spend time on your English writing skills!
2006-10-04 18:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you need to find a job that suits you and that you will be happy with.also think of your future,It might help you to further your education so you will have security In the future.
2006-10-04 18:45:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋