I talk to girl "a" and to girl "b" but just as friends but i like girl "b" i told girl "a" i like girl "b" (stupid of me, i know)and now girl "b" knows i like her and probably thinks i only talk to her because i like her and im interested in her,im not sure if girl "b" likes me or not,what i wanna know is what do you girls usually do when you talk to somebody as friends then find out they like you? what do you do when your not attracted to the person? what do you do when you are attracted to the person?
2006-10-04 11:35:48 · 8 answers · asked by XZELSOR 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
giggle..gossip..talk about the guy and whether he's cute or not..etc..etc... not attracted- don't want to hurt the guys feelings so break it off nicely and hopefully can still be friend. attracted- usually get all nervous around the guy and then eventually go out with him.
2006-10-04 11:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I find out that a guy friend is attracted to me and I'm not attracted to him, I tell him. I tell him that he is a great friend, but I'm just not into him as more than friendship. When I do like a guy as more than friends, I tell him. I tell him exactly what I feel, but I don't have any expectations about the situation changing unless he tells me different. Because just as I wasn't attracted to those other male friends of mine, he may not be attracted to me. If it happens to tunr out that way, I am able to remain friends with that person, because we were friends first.
2006-10-04 18:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Meesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch her body Language next time you are talking to her.Maybe she really likes you as a friend and in front of you she pretends she didn't hear about what you said,as she still wants to be friends with you,and if you find out that she does not feel the same,that you will no longer want to be friends,or maybe she is waiting for you to say some thing,so as I said watch her body language next time you are with her.I hope it all works out for you,whatever way you want things to go.
2006-10-04 18:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing I think is "Oh no". Then I think, "Well, do I like him or see myself liking him? What would this be like? If I don't like him then I avoid him as much as possible. But I be nice to him if I run across him, hoping that he won't get any mixed signals. If I like him, I get kind of clutsy around him and nervous. Then I would get over that and have my way with him.
2006-10-04 18:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by j.tech_77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i found out a friend likes me and i dont like them back i might distance myself alittle from them so they dont get the wrong idea but not to much that im being ridiculous, and if i do like them i flirt back and if i know 4 sure they like me ill tell them .
2006-10-04 18:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are attrcted to this person then say 'Do you like me" and if she says yes then ask her to be your g/f if she says no than just say that:
A.It was just a joke HA,HA!!
or
B.can we be friends?
2006-10-04 18:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to grow up and look up the word loyalty
2006-10-04 18:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by luby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look stop stressing and let her come to you.
2006-10-04 18:38:11 · answer #8 · answered by LEAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋