Ok so here it goes... Happend back in March so no hard feelings, just wondering what people think really happend.
OK, so I was with this girl for maby a month or 2 everything was alright, nothing crazy good but ok. Her "bestfriend" from high school comes back home for spring break and she plans on going to the beach with him and a few friends. We had sex the morning before she left, and shes gone for a week. She comes back and goes to the ER room and has a bladder infection. I didnt see her till a few days she had been back, she was acting kinda different. I asked her did she cheat? She getts all mad and has an attitude and swears to god she didnt cheat. Few weeks later she gets with the dude. Now the reason im asking so late is because somewhere in that story she got pregnant, so the kid could possible be mine, but the dates are about a month off. He left town as soon as she told him, a few months later she calls me and tells me shes having my kid.
What do you think?
2006-10-04 11:45:28 · 23 answers · asked by Rob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah, she's a dirty dog for sure. Don't let her scam you for child support. If the dates are that far off, you're probably not the daddy but not knowing if this is your baby............even just a slight chance........for peace of mind, do the paternity test.
Good luck and be more careful next time!!!
2006-10-04 11:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by kitty-mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, it sounds like she cheated - if she got so defensive when you asked like that. A bladder infection doesn't mean anything - you can get one even if you've never had sex! If the last time you had sex with her was before she left for vacation, then chances are it's NOT yours. She might be grasping at straws if the other guy took off, figuring you'd take responsibility. If you love her, then be honest with her. Tell her you can't be 100% sure it's yours because you believe she might have been with this other guy. If she swears up and down she didn't cheat - then say "then you won't have a problem doing a paternity test when the baby is born." Tell her FIRST, that if it's yours, you'll stand by her and do the right thing. If it's not, then YOU need to decide if you want to sign that birth certificate and raise that child as your own. If you do - and you find out it's not yours - you cannot just back out! So think about this hard and long, it's a life altering situation. Good luck!
2006-10-04 11:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by Kristen G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get a paternity test done when the kid's born. If it's yours, remember that this child had nothing to do with how it was brought into the world (so don't take your anger, if you have any, out on baby when you're ticked off at mom). If it's not yours, chalk this up to life experience and move on. Good luck!
2006-10-04 11:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jemma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok well honestly the odds are that she cheated!! Not great news to hear, but being female and having been put in that position myself I can say that not cheating is hard to do and well honestly I did and I know most of my friends did when put in situations like that!! get a DNA test!!
2006-10-04 11:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by angel122202 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good lord she could have gotton a blatter infection for several reasons.. it is not because she cheated.. it is not a sexually transmitted disease, she could have not had enough water in her system or something jeesh.. do the right thing and get a DNA test and find out for sure .. don't be so quick to judge. Trust .. very important in a relationship.. good luck
2006-10-04 11:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by michelle b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need 2 things:
1) An STD test
2) A paternity test
What were you thinking?
2006-10-04 12:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by Dee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she's a whore but you should definitely order a paternity test.. if you are then you should pay for it... if it turns out that you're not the father then she should pay. Don't just take her word for it. She wouldn't get mad like that for a reason just bc you asked.. well she shouldn't anyways
2006-10-04 11:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by gardener24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm suspicious, sounds like she did cheated, but it could be your kid too, just wait til the baby is born and get a paternity test, is the only way to know. good luck!
2006-10-04 11:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by its_me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, i'm happy and suprised some females do unlike females. i do no longer understand why ALL females are not lesbians or a minimum of bisexual. i could no longer blame them. women all of us is so alluring and sensual. They continually scent and flavor and experience and seem and sound so good! i could be a lesbian sl*t if I have been a woman! lol
2016-10-18 12:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know how everyone feels....she sure sounds guilty of cheating.....its clear as all day...as for the baby if you know its a month off..then there's another clue that its not yours...but for the benefit of the doubt.......get that dna.....and if its yours...take care of yours...... and you don't have to be with a cheater and a liar ....and if shes not yours then thank god..and run cause then you don't have to worry if shes gonna cheat on you....AGAIN...good luck
2006-10-04 12:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋