hai, i am a girl from india, got married(arranged, as per parents choice).i am in US now with my husband. i have never fallen in love before marriage, i used to always believe in love for a life. i married this man with lots of dreams, hoping he will be with me through thick n thin. he is different from what i ever thought, from day one he has made me feel more lonely,n helpless. there were lighter moments with him too but still the darker moments r more, he has made me cry like almost every week. every happy moment end with a fight or something upsets. he is too demanding, i dont know sometimes i feel i love him but the next moment i feel i hate him n should get seperated. is this common in all arranged marriages, or is mine a wierd case. i feel i can never be happy with him but at the same time i am worried for him, think abt him. he is not sensitive at all, he doest understand me or cares abt my feelings although i have told him many times, he says he loves me, but i dont understand
2006-10-04
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