we were going for 4 months of great realtionship till he cheated on me!!!! i dont know what to do!!! i still like him but after what he did i dont know if to sorry him or keep on with my life but with out him!!???
2006-10-04 14:05:33 · 18 answers · asked by PAULINA A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's better you know now than later. He probably will cheat on you if you stay with him. Thank him for doing you a favor because you don't need a jackass in your life
2006-10-04 14:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by finesthaitian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two different kinds of men: the cheaters and the non-cheaters. You need to ask yourself first what is most important...to be with a HOT *** guy that will treat you like **** and cheat on you....or to be with an average guy that will treat you good and be by your side always. I have never been cheated on because I stick to this rule. Most men do cheat but not all. The average or not so good looking guys will treat you like gold and although I get hit on by hot men on a constant basis; I turn the other way.
2006-10-04 14:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by sweetsin1976 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few reasons...
1. He got used to you and want to try someone else.
2. He also likes to see what his market value is. When guys stay with girls for a long time they like to see if they can still pull girls. He just took it too far.
3. He wants his cake and he wants to eat it too. He is with you, but instead of breaking up he cheats on you thinking he wouldn't get caught.
4. His other head took over in the thinking area. Us men are so weak when it comes to a horny moment and a woman there to please us.
2006-10-04 14:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by coolbeanfive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if you have already got evidence he's dishonest ("So I believe my bf is dishonest doing the net factor I do have evidence, however he hides his "cookies" temp documents that may hint what you're doing on-line.. ") why might you wish to retain torturing your self watching for extra proof? Just kick him to the lower noone merits to be cheated on. I recognize its simpler stated than performed for the reason that I'm certain you like him, however love your self extra. No man is ever valued at your tears.
2016-08-29 07:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
generall y guys cheat on girls because either they are a plyer or they are insecure
once a guy cheats on a girl i say u should dunp him
u can do better and find another guy
that is the best i can do for u
i hope i could help
2006-10-04 14:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick Teh III 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T be fooled by him..HE IS SCUM .. don't wast your time with him or trying to figure it out ..there are a lot of guys out there who will do this sort of thing...and not even have any shame! Some time we had an employee who was married to a gal who he had had an affair with and then divorced his wife (and kids), married her .. had more kids, and then chased any woman he met ..finally got one of his co-workers pregnant ... and had no shame!! RUN AWAY FROM THIS GUY..he is NOT going to change, I promise you!!
Just remember, this is NOTHING to do with you...I am sure there are a lot of nice guys who would like to date you..this is HIS problem. DON'T beat yourself up about this ..it's NOT about you!
2006-10-04 14:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by MeInUSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater, no matter how well you were getting along. Some guys(and girls) are just greedy, want everthing they can get.
2006-10-04 14:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by scarletsummer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first guys are stupid alot of the time they don't think with thier brain trust me i know every guy i've ever been with including my husband has cheated on me. this is something yuo and him will have to work out together if you want to be with him you'll have to forgive. it will be hard to forget
2006-10-04 14:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by trblmmmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, that all depends. there are alot of variables.
how old are you two? how mature are you two?
so on and so forth..
he cheated so he prolly aint worth your time or effort. but why he did it, thats a hard question to answer.
2006-10-04 14:11:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cheated on you because he want his cake and ice cream, but he cant have both so just move on. keep your head up dont let anybody bring you down!!!
2006-10-04 14:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋