2006-10-04 14:13:08 · 22 answers · asked by colin050659 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't know I'm still on the first and coming up on our 28th anniversary, looking forward to many more.
2006-10-04 14:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well lets hope you dont' have to find out. 1st time getting it right is always nice. but for the majority out there . you usually much younger the first time around and more green behind the ears if you know what i mean. and by the 2nd or 3 marriage you learn from pass mistakes. But sometimes you can remarry and no fault to your own it just doesnt' work out no one made a mistake at the time it was right but several years later things change your perspective or what you value is important to you changes. We are always growing and our wants and needs may change over years. So who's to say if 2 3 or 4 is right. Just one of these marriage you hope flys and your both on the same road in life.
2006-10-04 20:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the circumstances of the marriages respectively, my first marriage was brilliant, sadly my first wife passed away after 27 great years together, you get out of a marriage what both partners put into it, in my mind the key to a good relationship is communication, never leat a day go past without telling your partner you love him/her at least once, even if its when you're saying goodnight, and most of all, dont take your partner for granted thinking they will always be there, because if you do, thats when you will start to lose them, or their love at least, be spontaneous, surprise them once in a while, i loved arranging a surprise weekend away when i could afford it, it made a great change getting away from the home surroundings even if it was only for a couple of days, so you see, in effect, you'll get what you give, unless your partner happens to be a selfish person in which case you might be better off out of it, because that isnt love, thats using for their convenience. hope this has helped, im assuming your taking the plunge again, well so am i, and if you have a good 2nd partner, its going to be great. good luck
2006-10-04 15:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by a1ways_de1_lorri_2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there really should not be a "second" time. But if there is....and YOU learned what you did wrong in the first one....and yes BOTH people are to blame when a marriage breaks down....then yes second id great!
2006-10-04 14:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ideally the first time should be the best & only time but realistically many people find that they iron out all the mistakes the first time & are better prepared the second.
2006-10-04 19:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me it's definately the 2nd time is better !!!! I was very young and hoped for something that just wasn't going to be. I made a mistake by marrying my 1st husband and am still going through a lot because of that choice that I made. Life is not perfect but we all have to grow and learn from what happens in our lives and be blessed and grateful for what we do have. All the best.
2006-10-04 14:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by gillybomb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been married over 40 years. I can't imagine what a second marriage would be like
2006-10-04 14:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by jaded2809 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont know - first one lasted 20 years and was mostly lousy, just about to go into the second one in 2 weeks! Keeping my fingers crossed that it will be great.
2006-10-04 23:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by jaygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldnt know. This is my first time being married. Weve been married for 2 years now and half of our marriage he spent in Iraq. Go figure.
2006-10-04 14:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by sweetangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Second for sure. I thought this marriage through this time!
2006-10-04 15:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by BuffyFromGP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Second time. The first one is just for practice.
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2006-10-04 14:14:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋