Family & Relationships - 4 October 2006

All right, I don't have any form of contacting her now, and tomorrow she's telling this boy to tell my crush if he likes me. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She says this guy is "trustworthy", and I've met him, but I've never told any secrets to him (no matter how nice he might be to me). My friend says she tells him secrets all the time...and he's never spoiled one! Could this be the right thing to do? Or should I keep my feelings to myself? I've been told I should tell him, but I've also been told to shut up about it. This is so confusing!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My friend is nice and all, but some people say I shouldn't trust her. But...I have told her a few secrets, and as far as I remember, she hasn't really blabbed. Girls, what do you think? What about you guys out there? Any help form anyone? Please? Serious answers only, and DONT SAY FOLLOW UR HEART, ITS CHEESY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-04 14:34:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 18 years old and I just began to build a relationship with my dad. When I was a child he married and moved to Germany where he had two kids. He did not call much and he did not see me much. He moved back when i was seven and i just pushed him away. My relatinship with him makes it hard for me to keep a girlfriend because I have a bad attitude but it is because I am mad as hell. My mom was in high school when I was born and she dropped out to take care of me. He was basically free. Should I just forgive him because I love him or just let him go because I get angry fast.

2006-10-04 14:34:31 · 18 answers · asked by CYP 1 in Family

I am looking for a wedding MC who can speaks both chinese & hokkien on 27.10.2007. My buget around $200.

2006-10-04 14:34:24 · 5 answers · asked by Ms bo-liao 1 in Weddings

I have a freind who dated a guy and they thought that they were going to get married and all that other stuff. About 2/3 of a year later he dumps her for another of our good freinds. Then over the summer he brakes up with her and goes back to my first freind, who to our dread took him back and just as seriously as before. Then guess what happens.... he dumps her again for the same girl. Finally SHE dumped HIM, to our relief. Now he's dating some other girl that he apparently doesn't even like. Now here is where i'm really confused, he is telling my friends, (the 2 he dated of course) that "she was the best girl-friend he ever had" and so on. I have a pretty good idea what is going through my friends' minds, but here is my question; WHY? why is he doing this? What is going through his mind, what is he trying to do?

2006-10-04 14:32:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey i like this guy that i have knew since preschool should i ask him out or is it to late for that. or should i ask him out please help?

2006-10-04 14:32:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and all my acting friends tried out for the acting shakespeare team at my school. i thought at all 3 of my auditions i did great. but i didnt end up making it. they only took 7 people out of 34, and my 4 friends all made it. i know its all about auditions and cuts and im fine, but all they talk about is the team and the ppl and how they wear their t-shirts every friday to plays and stuff. i want to scream. i felt like i did so much better, but im happy for them...but im left out and they dont see that. watching in the audience isnt as great as being up there. i can auditon next year again, but if i dont make it 2 times in a row...ill feel worse.

2006-10-04 14:31:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend is really over weight. I don't want to be rude or anything like say to her face, "Go on a diet", or "dude stop eating." I don't want to be rude. She said she'll die if she eats too much sugar. But she eats it anyway. She wieghs more than my dad. My dad wieghs about 230 pounds. What should I do?

2006-10-04 14:31:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

this is really odd for be beause i keep feeling like needles stabing my chest but i know i am not physically injured, just emotionally unhappy......why am i feeling the way i am? how can i get over it?

2006-10-04 14:30:10 · 3 answers · asked by confused 3 in Singles & Dating

On my past few questions I have really been receiving a lot of nasty comments from other women because I am submissive to my husband. I feel this is the way it should be and I think most men would prefer it this way. My husband often calls me his "little angel" and told me several times in the previous month that I was a "good little girl" when he came home and I gave him a cold drink, a big smile and a long hug. Sure my husband has to spank me sometimes when I get a little attitude or something because of hormones but I know that shows he loves me even more because he cares about my behavior. I also let my husband have the final say in everything, never nag at him or question him, and if he tells me to drop something i will immediately obey and be quiet. I really do think that men would prefer this type of behavior from their wives, but I want to see what other people think.

2006-10-04 14:30:03 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-04 14:28:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HOW DO I NICELY SO "NO"?

2006-10-04 14:26:20 · 16 answers · asked by kelchristim1 2 in Singles & Dating

ok this boy i like asked me today hey Trista do you know what a taint is and i said yeah ,he said yesterday my cousin dared me to put germex on it so i did and know it burns then he said owwwwww my weiner is on fire!and i said why are you telling me this he said couse my weiner burns!but he know i like him and eveything and he was staring at me in math and in language .and he always run right in front of me real fast to get on his bus and he always calls me a nick name he gave me,and the smorning i came to school early and i walked to my locker and he said my nickname and was pretty close to my locker.and you know how if somone gets to close to yuor personal space you move well i was leaning behind him writing on the board and he didnt move but kind of got closer and leaned over so we were touching for a sec. is he fliting or what i dont get boys!

2006-10-04 14:24:42 · 1 answers · asked by Trista 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this friend(read previous question)anyways she sent me a christmas list and circled the stuff she wants me to get her now i moved from ny to fl 2 months ago living with my bf and i have no job she wants either a guess watch for $190 or a down comforter from fortuneoff i dont care what u tell me to tell her i'm just fed up and she can't get it through her thick skull jeez arghhhhhhhhhh sorry but i'm really pissed its only october why she sending me this list so early thx for answering :)

2006-10-04 14:24:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm 16 years old and so is my boyfriend. We've been friends for a little while, gotten really close, and started dating on Friday.

However, his parents have suddenly decided I'm a bad influence... they like me, yet they dissaprove of me as his girlfriend because yesterday he was helping me with homework at school (we have lots of witnesses saying that we really were studying and not making-out) and then they showed up early (right after I had put away my books).... long story short, when he got in the car they apparently accused us of making-out.

I'm definitely not a bad influece... I strive to be a really good person and I've never had somebody think I'm a bad influence before. I know I probably sound like a baby, but it really hurts to automatically be black-listed because of false assumptions.

What should I do to get his parents to trust us, respect us, and let us hang-out with out thinking we're going to be all over eachother?

We've barely even kissed eachother...

2006-10-04 14:24:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

will a pic help out? I've been talk in for like 2 weeks and theres no luck at all.

2006-10-04 14:23:41 · 4 answers · asked by john m 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to have all of my classes with this one girl except for home ec. and hawk time (like homeroom).Today in gym she told me that is was fun being in all of our classes. now i only have 4 classes with her. could that mean that she likes me?

2006-10-04 14:23:41 · 14 answers · asked by Advice Needer 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 14:23:23 · 6 answers · asked by happyperson 1 in Friends

and why?

2006-10-04 14:23:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She is under the impression that grapefruit burns fat...when it really doesn't (just saw this thing on Yahoo diet myths...whatever that is).

You didn't think I had some other bad news, did you? No, just that.

2006-10-04 14:21:26 · 49 answers · asked by powhound 7 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month and i really want him to kiss me.im one of those girls that likes the guy 2 kiss her first.ive tryed everything to get him to kiss me and he still wont.ive even talked to him about it and he didnt know that i was ready for that yet.Now that he does, how can i drop the hint so he`ll know when to kiss me?e-mail me at touchingwildhorses@yahoo.com

2006-10-04 14:21:09 · 10 answers · asked by Showcaster 2 in Singles & Dating

if a girl is friends with a boy for a loong while, so theyre pretty close friends and he hugs her when he sees her and gave her a birthday present, calls her sweetheart online & says she's gorgeous and
is serious when saying hed have sex with her

is he jsut trying to get laid or does he really want her both physically and emotionally?

2006-10-04 14:21:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother is rediculous. Im 19, finishing up my second year of college, getting ready to go to my bachelors program at a university. I work a serious job as a credit processor, and she is still on my case!!!!!!! She says I am too young and she will do what ever it takes to stop the relationship. She is crazy and argues with me over the same stuff. For crying out loud the young man is going to school to be a pastor, his version of fun is sitting down watching football alone or reading the Bible. He is veggitarian, Bible believing, doesnt hang out or nothing. Doesnt smoke, drink, curse or nothing....she just doesnt like "his past" yet she a christian...help!!!!!!!!!!! She is driving me crazy...should I move away?

2006-10-04 14:20:57 · 13 answers · asked by Señorita Bonita 2 in Family

My husband has always been friends with his ex, I've never had a problem with it until now. Recently we were talking about sexual fantasies and one of his was a threesome. So I joked about how I'd have my best friend come over and we'd fulfill his fantasy. Then he told me that if he was going to do it he'd really want it to be with his ex. Ouch. So I just pushed it to the side, because how do you tell your husband that he just broke your heart? So then he was talking to her and told her what we talked about and said that I thought it was ok. Now she's asking him all sorts of questions, like what he likes sexually and things like that and I don't know what to do! To top it all off he told me a few days ago that he might still have feelings for her! We have already invited her to come stay at out house for a weekend in December, but where I work now I'm going to have to work every weekend and I don't know if I can find it to trust them alone together. What should I do?

2006-10-04 14:18:56 · 14 answers · asked by Phoenix H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

They don't allow conjugal visits. What can I do in the meantime to fulfill my naughty desires for sex with someone I'm not supposed to be sleeping with????....he's going to be gone for 6 months!!!! (he got butsted for passing a bad check to a prostitute)

2006-10-04 14:18:27 · 8 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 14:17:53 · 12 answers · asked by gothicfelice 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How long do you need to talk before moving on to meet them.
Or is it like the female choice?

2006-10-04 14:16:48 · 4 answers · asked by john m 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I've met recently and we've been out three times and fooled around twice. (No sex) Anyway, he finds me interesting because he can't read me and he can't figure me out, so he says. Then he tells me he wants to trust me, but he also says that i'm "so much fun." What am I so much fun? Is it because I play guys or what?

Should I continue playing him, or be honest with him...what do you think he wants?

2006-10-04 14:16:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just getting over a guy I was dating for 3 years, and I've known him since I was 3. What do I do about the lonliness factor? Im' always sad. Seeing happy people at the mall makes me feel like I could cry. I don't know what to do anymore. Help please.

2006-10-04 14:15:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to send a card for a friend of mine who is also an adult. So, preferably a sexi, funny e-card? where to find it?

2006-10-04 14:15:37 · 5 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Friends

2006-10-04 14:15:32 · 6 answers · asked by jack_attack0322 1 in Singles & Dating