How long do you need to talk before moving on to meet them.
Or is it like the female choice?
2006-10-04 14:16:48 · 4 answers · asked by john m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My son finds a lot of dates on myspace. Many too far away to date, and many in our town. Seems to work for him, just have patience.
2006-10-04 14:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like ur doing it all wrong. I've been able to set up multiple dates using the web. First off how many diff women are you contacting? Does your profile show that you are a high status, confident male that is going somewhere with his life? What kind of woman do you want to attract?
Attractive women get dozens to hundreds of emails in a week and I'm not exaggerating. I was dating a former model who put her profile on Match dot com for laughs and she was getting over 50 emails a day. Before when it was free she would get over 100 per day. She would get emails like:
"Hey, you're hot!"
"Let me take you out to a fancy dinner!"
"Wanna go to Hawaii with me?"
She would also get Looooong emails and weird pics. So, if u want to get a woman's attention your first email should be 1-2 pargraphs, should have one item in her profile, and don't tell her how hot she is, don't even bring up her beauty. Don't be afraid to challenge a little.....say "so, other than your nice smile, what else do u have to offer?".
Also you may need to contact a lot of women before you start figuring out what works. I'd contact at least 200-300 a month and set up a meeting (not a date) where you meet for drinks, a walk at the local mall, main street, whatever....don't pay more than 15-20 for that first meeting. And if it goes well you can then set up the first real date.
Good luck,
Rod
p.s. the guy at the link below is the absolute MASTER at online dating, I'd check him out....
2006-10-04 21:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by thedatepro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it leads to something. Carpal tunnel syndrome and countless wasted hours.
You could just show up, but I'm pretty sure there are stalking laws in all 50 states. Just remember to remove all of the severd heads that are rolling around in the trunk.
It's not stalking if you really really like. She loves you. She just doesn't know it yet. Go get her killer!
2006-10-04 21:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by themoncriefs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her choice
2006-10-04 21:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋