I'm just getting over a guy I was dating for 3 years, and I've known him since I was 3. What do I do about the lonliness factor? Im' always sad. Seeing happy people at the mall makes me feel like I could cry. I don't know what to do anymore. Help please.
2006-10-04 14:15:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to move on. try reading this book it might help
"I Love You Kate" by Juli Norris.
it's a really sweet story about a lost love and has excellent reviews. i read it and it's so sweet.
2006-10-04 14:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, don't worry. You're just upset that you just got through a break up, it happens to everybody. I'm sad most of the time too and I even have a boyfriend (almost 7/8 months) and I still feel the same as you do. What you should do is try to get your mind on something you like. Try hanging out with your friends and all to get you happy, go see a movie, go skating, have a sleep over or a party, ect. Or just hang around someone that can always make you laugh.
*Rae*
2006-10-04 14:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by animegirl769z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm going through the same thing. It's natural to feel that way you were together for 3 years that's a long time. Don't think about being lonely cause its going to make it worse. Put your focus on sometihng else that interests you. Hell you see somebody cute ask them out. Dont worry in time youll get better just enjoy life.
2006-10-04 14:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't think you are sad just because you are alone. You are sad because you miss the guy that you were dating. Get him back and you will feel so much better. You are obviously in love. Love requires a lot of work. You wouldn't be so miserable if you just hated being lonely.
2006-10-04 14:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsin1976 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't become dependent on letting other people dictate your happiness. if you aren't happy w/ yourself, how can you have the self-confidence that others will be happy w/ you. and remember, things happen for a reason even though it may become evident for a long time to come. i should know. i wasn't happy in my marriage, i inititated the divorce and now my ex is getting remarried next month and is happily moving on. and here i sit.... alone. look at this way.... you are now INDEPENDENT. relish in it.... as the song goes... don't worry - be happy... maybe that is contrite but in a way it's true. great things await....don't rush it... you'll see. :) hope this helps.
2006-10-04 14:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by ratherbeinmt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey! i do feel the same when i go to malls.Though i have a husband for more than 7 years now he never accompany me and my little one. And he never talk to us with love. He never even bother when we r in need. But make a friends, chat with a friends, play some games, watch ur favouratie channel, prepare a food something which u like etc.
2006-10-04 14:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by kiran123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a group or club. There you will meet new people, find a new guy. The mall does not work, everyone is walking by you fast.
2006-10-04 14:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!!! You'll fine another guy who will love you and care for you. Anyways chill with your home girls and get involve into cubs/sports. Keep your mind busy and most of all let out your emotions, aight girl. Anyways beat of luck mami and peace out!
2006-10-04 14:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by what_it_do? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby, or develop an interest that will help you to fill some of your time and provide a distraction. Develop new friendships.
2006-10-04 14:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHERE ARE YOUR GIRLS???? Having your girlfriends to have a girls night out or a shoulder to cry on is key in recuperating from a break up...you need to hang out with your friends...have fun...and after you do that, you'll realize you can have fun, and be independent on your own.
2006-10-04 14:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by asiantomato84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋