Family & Relationships - 4 October 2006

I have a 3 year old daughter. She has been in daycare/learning center since she was 4 months old. She has always loved going and we have never had a problem. My 1 year old goes to the same daycare. For the past 2 nights, she has started crying uncontrollably and telling me that she does not want to go to "school", that nobody likes her there and that everyone is mean to her. I have asked her if her teachers are mean to her and she says no, just the other kids in her class. She says that nobody will play with her. My husband dropped her off today, so I have not had a chance to speak with her teachers... do you think that I should or should I just let it go and see if it works itself out? I do not want to sound like an overly anxious parent to the staff but I would like to see if they can make sure that she is being included. It hurt so badly to hear my daughter this upset. I have taken the day after tomorrow off of work so that we can spend some time together...

2006-10-04 16:15:58 · 21 answers · asked by lili 3 in Family

I am a hopeless romantic. I cry during chick flicks, I cry from songs. The thing that I want most in this world is to be love and be loved in return. I can't wait to get married and have children. And yet I feel like it's never going to happen for me. I see couples all the time and it just depresses me or makes me feel like I'm missing out. I'm not ugly, nor am I incredibly good-looking. I have many good qualities and am an enjoyable person to be around.

My question is... am I the only one who feels this way? And if you have felt this way before what were some things that you did to overcome it and how do you feel now that you have beaten it?

Serious answers only, please. Please do not be rude and call me names or make fun of me because I will report you.

2006-10-04 16:15:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 16:14:05 · 14 answers · asked by gelo 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to find her...

2006-10-04 16:14:05 · 8 answers · asked by L 2 in Friends

I've been with my man for almost 3 years. I have always known that he is a pot head and I have always hated it BUT I have tried to be understanding because I have my faults as well. Anyway he has no license and owes about $600.00 before he will get it back. 8 months ago we made an agrement that he would not buy any pot until after he paid off his license We both agreed that he could smoke if people offered BUT he would NOT buy it until he paid for his lisence. Up until now I thought he was following through with this agrement but last weekend his roommate told me that he has been chipping in with a friend to buy it every week! I called him out on it but he denies it. I don't know what to do. I am 100% sure the roomate is telling me the truth and my boyfriend has lied to me before so its hard to trust him. My friends all keep saying that he's only lieing because he doesn't want to lose me. Does that make it okay? Should I forgive him? Should I leave him? Help...I really don't know

2006-10-04 16:13:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi my name is mckenzie and my mommy is with me while i am writing this.i am 9 years old and my dad is in prison.i write to him every single day and he responds and i call him too.but i need to know what i can do to be able to feel better about him being there.first it was hard because he left and now he is going to prison in florida.any sugggestions?

2006-10-04 16:13:08 · 10 answers · asked by Melissa MacDonald 2 in Family

how would you react if somebody who is nice and good looking says he has a crush on you??? is ity easy for us (guys) just to be straight and tell you " I like you" without you freaking out.

2006-10-04 16:12:56 · 15 answers · asked by javn 2 in Singles & Dating

Men,imagine your about to have a 3some with your wife/gf for one og the first times and you cant get hard. Obviously this is very exciting for you(and probably your wife too)so whats wrong? What could you possibly be soft about?

2006-10-04 16:12:42 · 9 answers · asked by TrofyWife 4 in Singles & Dating

..what is all the hate about? I like older men and my friends make fun of me for dating him? He is 8 years my senior. We have been dating for a year and a half and we can't get enough of each other. I think that we are in love, even though we haven't said it to each other yet. I think that he may be the one.

2006-10-04 16:12:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have 2 guy friends and 1 female friend. 1 guy friend is dating the female friend, i like the female friend. what should i do?

2006-10-04 16:12:24 · 8 answers · asked by Mad 1 in Friends

i just recently met some one and have gone for coffee a couple of time and i have gone to her place for tea. what disturbs me is she pursued me at first, now she would like to be just friends. she is everything i want in aperson. she has goals and is in the same field as i am in work we can sit for hours and talk, but i am confused on what i should next. should i just be a friend? but i want a relationship.

2006-10-04 16:12:07 · 17 answers · asked by kispioxman2000 1 in Singles & Dating

he has a girfriend. he does not cheat on her which is good he does not cheat on her which is good, but when we see each other he hugs me tight, and i caught him driving by my house the other day, he knows i wanna be with him, and he likes it, he has a lot of probs with current girl. he also talks bout me all the time to my friend that works with him, i need some advice here on if i should give up and if thatt saying is true out of sight out of mind

2006-10-04 16:12:01 · 3 answers · asked by shyone 1 in Singles & Dating

Let's say that you went on a sea cruise, and you were out some-
where in the Pacific. There is a terrible storm at sea, and the ship suddenly runs aground. There are about 250 people on board, including you. Sudenly the ship starts taking on water. Everyone is screaming and shouting uncontrollably. Radio communication is halted, and there is no one out looking for the lost vessle. The emergency rafts have all been used up, and you are left in a state of panic. You suddenly pass out! At dawn the next day, you awaken, floating on a large piece of the ship's debris. You see yourself headed towards a small island. All at once, you hear a
man's voice next to you, assuring you that everything will be okay.
You look up.............Who is restiing next to you?

2006-10-04 16:11:40 · 9 answers · asked by Road Trip 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

It is so different in this day and age. I babysit for my two grand daughters and it's an emotional, not to mention hard job. I want to do good by them, i love them so very much and don't want to make the same mistakes i might have made with my own children. Do you agree that it's the most challenging job and it's harder than even ten years ago. As much as i love them, there is so much bad in this world, just makes me feel so humbled!

2006-10-04 16:11:19 · 4 answers · asked by gone2soon 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

school. He is two years older than me and I don't know if he has a gf...but I REALLY like him!!!! help!! wut do i do?

2006-10-04 16:10:59 · 3 answers · asked by michielev 2 in Singles & Dating

Behind every great guy, theres a great story

Guy number 1--Older,sweet,nice,loving, everything I look for in a guy. Just all around great but if hes so great, why am I thinking about..

Guy 2--Best friend,but also my ex boyfriends best friend. Never thought of him as anything more until today when we went out together and he kissed me.

I'm so confused I like them both and I have no idea what to do...plz help, who do I choose??

2006-10-04 16:10:56 · 11 answers · asked by theblonchic 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 16:10:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok..So..Me and my girlfriend (Yes, i'm bi) Just met about 4 days ago, and we're goin on our first date tommorow...Well..I'm nervous anyways..But now she tells me she wants me to make the first move!!

Welllll...I've NEVER made the first move on anyone..It's always been them making the first move...

Soo..My question is...What in the world should I do? How do I go about makin the first move? WHAT IS A GOOD FIRST MOVE!?!? I don't wanna come off as weird or anything, I wanna be....Ehhh...Sorta subtle..I don't know...

Someone help me T_T

2006-10-04 16:09:46 · 11 answers · asked by fraudulent_messiah 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 16:09:28 · 9 answers · asked by wow!! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-04 16:09:13 · 2 answers · asked by Fiddlegirl 1 in Singles & Dating

over the weekend my boyfriend answered my cell phone while i was taking a shower it was my daughters father my boyfriend told him i would call him back on doing so my daughter father stated that since my little boyfriend want to answer the phone f***you i had the hook up for you. i then replied if the hook up is going tohelp your child out thats all you need to worry about. what is his problem he has a child younger than my child why is he so mad that i have moved on

2006-10-04 16:09:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been dating for awhile. He hurt my feelings because he gave me a Shrek video for Christmas 2 yrs ago. I have not bought him anything since. I cannot figure out what he was thinking. Why would you buy your girlfriend a Shrek video? I was so hurt, I left it with his 4 yr old grandson. He buys me other nice things, but nothing romantic. I have a new safe, a new set of Chicago Cutlery, a new flourescent floor lamp. What is wrong with him? Christmas is approaching and I dread it. What to do?

2006-10-04 16:08:51 · 13 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 16:08:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I like him,he likes me, bout is going out with someone, he stares at me all the time, should I break him and his girl up?

2006-10-04 16:07:54 · 21 answers · asked by K 1 in Friends

2006-10-04 16:06:24 · 9 answers · asked by julius_cesare_jota 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife always has an excuse not to have sex with me but she really seems to get freaky and turned on when dancing with other women.

2006-10-04 16:06:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-04 16:05:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband is overweight but it has never bothered me hes at risk medically for the typical heartattack and diabetis this worries me i have never said anything to him about his weight.i like big guys . my problem is we watched the celeb weigh in show . my husband said i dont look that bad do i ; i paused and said do you want me to be honest and he said yes. i said ok then.how tall is he-and what does he weigh? i said we are the same body type but do i look like that? first of all i have always told him his wieght never bothered me only if it became a medical problem. i kept saying you do the math and finally after 10 min. of do i really i said fine you and he are the same body type and you weigh the same. what should i have said ? I have never judged anyone on their weight. should i have lied to him and said no honey you dont. this is a double -edged sword quesiton help me didnt know what to say. caught off guard.

2006-10-04 16:05:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently moved into college and met a friend's friend who I am interested in.He pretty much personifies everything I am looking for in a guy.We have a lot in common.We've known each other for a little over a month.First we were casual friends.One of our mutual friends tried to set him up with my roommate,but that didnt work out bc he found out she parties 2 much. He invited me to an event that his dorm was hosting about two weeks ago, something you bring a date to. I was thrilled,he needed a little pep talk from a mutual friend to ask me, but he did and I accepted. Did I mention that he is INCREDIBLY shy/quiet? The night was really fun, and it was surprising because he even loosened up enough to put his arm around me, and we had some great convo's. We agreed that we should start hanging out, but since then it has only been me calling him. I want this to go somewhere, and I think he might too.I don't want to scare him, esp. since he is shy!Should I confront him, or hopehestarts callin

2006-10-04 16:04:33 · 14 answers · asked by SaRaH S. 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 16:04:21 · 4 answers · asked by michelle m 1 in Marriage & Divorce