Behind every great guy, theres a great story
Guy number 1--Older,sweet,nice,loving, everything I look for in a guy. Just all around great but if hes so great, why am I thinking about..
Guy 2--Best friend,but also my ex boyfriends best friend. Never thought of him as anything more until today when we went out together and he kissed me.
I'm so confused I like them both and I have no idea what to do...plz help, who do I choose??
2006-10-04 16:10:56 · 11 answers · asked by theblonchic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't do anything if you dont want to. be with the guy you feel most comfortable with and who's always there for you when you need them. when i shared my first kiss with this guy, people thought i didnt really like the guy but that i was infatuated with the thought of kissing him and the idea of being kissed. i kinda made a big deal about it, but no more bigger than one of my best friends (i have a best friend who's a guy, and a best friend who's a girl). it wasnt until later where i realised that there was nothing in the kiss we had shared and that i was thinking about it because of the fact that he's older, sweet, nice, loving, generous, cute, and all around a really great guy who i really think about quite often. he's everything i look for in a guy. however, i never thought anything of him, besides being a fun guy to be around, until he kissed me. the thought of him kissing me, and not just once but many times, got messed up in my head where i thought that i could possibly have a future with this guy. i got to learn a lot about him but more realised that our relationship is more based on friendship rather than anything else. my only dilemma is that i have a best friend of mine who keeps trying to set me and his friend (the guy that kissed me) up and it's got to the point where it builds up too much pressure. in my case, i have two options. i can either go with my best friend's thought and be with the guy who kissed me, or i can move on with my life and try getting past the kisses we had shared and find someone who is just as great. im still undecided to this point because the guy who kissed me i feel so comfortable around and we do have a lot of fun together, and we treat each other the way boyfriends and girlfriends treat each other, plus being everything i've ever wanted in a guy.
i guess what im trying is that you should choose the guy who you feel like forming more of a relationship with. just because someone kisses you doesnt necessarily mean you have feelings for them and it's only natural to come out and think about what happened between the two of you, and if you feel nothing for him except friendship, then choose the other guy. however, you may need a break to think about what you're going to do. it'll be hard cos you dont wanna hurt anyone's feelings, but in the end you'll feel better about it.
2006-10-04 16:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy 1 - never mess around with the best friend of an ex. It's a recipe for disaster (and the guy is a slime for messing with his best friends ex).
2006-10-04 16:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by shakopcool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do they both have serious intentions towards you? What do you admire in both. Make two lists. All the poisitives about each, and the negatives. Whoever has the konger mihnus list is the loser.
2006-10-04 16:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date both.. u have a lot of techniques.. its a secret now. kinda gangster. yet is he. what do u seek for in a guy.. r u prepared to bypass with a gangster who can help u follow ur desires interior and out. or some prevalent joe.. cuz were all human beings. we no proper from incorrect... follow ur heart.. make em sprung. haha. lol. anyweizs gud success
2016-11-26 03:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 girlfriend GOOd guys dont come that often and when they do u gotta hold on to him how would u like your best friend with ur EX ?
2006-10-04 16:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by joanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay free to date either when you wish you dont have a rule you have to follow when dating do you ,? If you are not truely committed to oe then date both for awhile .open no secrects .good luck
2006-10-04 16:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you see yourself with? Who would you want to spend the rest of your life with? Really think about this. i think guy # 1..
2006-10-04 16:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by SCSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with guy 1
2006-10-04 16:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by rusty s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS go for the good looking one
2006-10-04 16:14:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one solution double penetration
2006-10-04 16:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋