Ok..So..Me and my girlfriend (Yes, i'm bi) Just met about 4 days ago, and we're goin on our first date tommorow...Well..I'm nervous anyways..But now she tells me she wants me to make the first move!!
Welllll...I've NEVER made the first move on anyone..It's always been them making the first move...
Soo..My question is...What in the world should I do? How do I go about makin the first move? WHAT IS A GOOD FIRST MOVE!?!? I don't wanna come off as weird or anything, I wanna be....Ehhh...Sorta subtle..I don't know...
Someone help me T_T
2006-10-04 16:09:46 · 11 answers · asked by fraudulent_messiah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let things happen naturally grasshopper. I would start by not thinking so hard about it and towards the end of the night just think about maybee a nice kiss. If all your thinking about is who makes the first move.....your doing this date for the wrong reasons. I wish you the very best.
2006-10-04 16:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by BudLt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well here is your chance: There's a first time for everything! First of all you ain't wasting no time calling her your girl and you met 4 days ago, what's up with that? Well your first damn move needs to be getting to know that person. If you don't feel comfortable making a move then don't do it. Becuase both of you are going to regret it. But just talk... great conversation goes a long way... and then seal it with a passionate kiss, and the rest should be history. And alcohol is always a ice breaker, plus it softens the blow. I would prefer wine... I love red wine... sangria is good....Hope this helps.
2006-10-04 23:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about just holding hands, then when you feel comfortable a kiss on the cheek then progress to a kiss on the lips
2006-10-04 23:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by Wibble 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think she made the first move by telling you to make a move? Think about it.
2006-10-04 23:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't think of who's gonna do the first move. It will just happen without your thought of it.
2006-10-04 23:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by junior 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think that u should talke the pplunge in the relationship and this is comming from a 12 yr old
2006-10-04 23:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by lalala dodo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
During dinner, subtly walk over and tear off her shirt (but be subtle) and suck on her nipples. Remember to be subtle though, and you'll be okay.
2006-10-04 23:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I say, take off your clothes, take out some lotion, hit record on a video camera and see what happens.....and you could e-mail me some pictures! LOL!
2006-10-04 23:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
french kiss and then take eachothers clothes off and then finger bang yourselfs
2006-10-04 23:11:34 · answer #9 · answered by rusty s 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just ask her out.
2006-10-04 23:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋