I just wanna cry... I have a husband that constantly cuts me out of decisions that should be made together. Such as, we got a cash advance on one of our credit cards to take a trip to Disney with my family in February?
When I started about the hotel we would be staying in last night, he said " We can't afford that right now, I put the money towards a larger payment on blah, blah, blah." !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Our bills are fine, he just doesn't want to go.
He wasn't going to tell me until it was too late!! Our 4 yr old is SO psyched for this trip and then he pulls this sh*t??? Then he says "If your parents can pay for you and her, you two can go, that would be ok with me".
I don't even know how to deal with this!!
This is a larger scale version of what is ALWAYS going on. Anything financial? We have been married over a year and still hasnt put my name on OUR bank account! I've threatened to keep my checks, he does whatever he wants anyway. This is how his family treats women. HELP?!
2006-10-04
16:35:39
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patti_jim_reynolds
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Marriage & Divorce