my best friend for 3 years- my girlfriend for 8 months- broke up with me out of the blue and we're not really friend anymore. im compleatly lost and i dont know what to do anymore. i feel like theres nothing left in life for me, and theres no point to it.
2006-10-04 16:36:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You weren't ready for the break-up and she was.
Get your mind off her. If you have hobbies or other interests, get into them. Travel if you can. Find something else you like doing and get your mind off her as completely as you can. Don't date for a while--anybody.
When you stop feeling lost you can start easing back into dating. Problem is you probably haven't dated others very much and don't know where to start, but it will come.
Most important, cultivate other friendships, and not just girls.
2006-10-04 16:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. Just hang in there, and keep yourself busy so that you're not stuck at home ruminating on your heartbreak, because that will make you feel worse. Just concentrate on doing the things that you like to do (even if you don't feel like you enjoy anything right now) and spend time with your other friends and your family. Just give your now-ex time, since she's probably feeling confused right now, and hopefully in a while she will feel comfortable enough to talk to you about what happened, and hopefully in the future you guys will be able to revive your friendship at least.
It's natural that you should feel this way since she's been such a big part of your life for so long. Just hang in there, keep busy, and the hurt will pass in time and you'll feel like your life has meaning again.
2006-10-04 23:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean... I have been there before. You need to just move on... you probably dont wanna... Its something you have to take one day at a time.. You cant let something like that bring you down. You have your whole life ahead of you!Get some new friends and have some fun! You will have best friends again and GIrlsfriends !!!! Trust me. You have a lot going for you dont get down!
Turn that frown upside down =) Cause you never know who is follow in love with your smile.
Hope I could help you out. Peace
2006-10-04 23:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take one day at a time, You never know maybe you might find some1 better. do what you do the nest and try calling back your ex maybe try to work somethign out or just go out as friends. if that dont work out well i guess you have bad luck. i'm sorry for you but thats life everyone go throught thir ups and down.
2006-10-04 23:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is find new friends.. away from the circle of friends that you and your ex was in. Start a fresh and don't hang around those people who will remind you of your pain
2006-10-04 23:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so there is nothing in the whole world,,,your whole entire life left for you??? over a girl???? wow. that dont sound too cool. there are so many other things to do in life
2006-10-04 23:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! Accept it and give it about two weeks. If you don't accept it, you pain can go on for years.
2006-10-04 23:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jackal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋