I guess I'll ask this another way: any of you ever have a tough time opening up to a guy you really liked (or thought you liked)? Were you able to get over it? What did it for you? Where did he fit in all of this? And did the relationship work out for any of you?
Sorry I know there's a lot here.
2006-10-04 16:37:21 · 5 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talking to guys is just as hard for girls as it is for guys to talk to girls..and once you earn the trust of that person then there is no reason to have a problem talking to them..as far as a relationship..a main part of a relationship is communication, so if that's what you're looking for be sure to have the guts to open up
2006-10-04 16:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by ArmyGirlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls have a hard time opening up the first time. It is natural because their vagina is not used to penetration. You should try some KY warming liquid. Also, ask your lover to blow sofly on your pubic mound. Tapping lightly on your clitoris also helps.
Once you have relaxed a little, tell him to work head in slowly. Many guys rush to thrust. I'm not going to lie. It will still be painful, but these things will help.
2006-10-04 23:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and continue to be yourself and it's your personality that will speak louder than words. my husband now....which i did adore him in silence before we even had that relationship spark up never get any hints from me and i've never been a too open person (cause ladies are always still ladies cause we have our own 'egos' too) but our personalities will melts them at the end for a blessed life.
2006-10-04 23:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always have a hard time opening up...did I get over him? nope...what do you mean what did it for me?...fit in all of what...the relationship did not work out...i hate him now, but my heart races when i see him...that JERK
2006-10-04 23:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by caramela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much to answer i am blonde
2006-10-04 23:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋