Your boyfriend and you always talk every morning, and of course, every day after school. Almost as if it is a tradition now, your boyfriend is always the first one to call you every morning and every day after school. This has been the usual call routine for five to six months now like this every day. Then one day all of a sudden he doesn't call you - at all, period. So you get into action and call him. He even puts his phone on silent and every time you call you get no answer. Should this be an area of concern? Or is it time the he wants a change? What do you think? I mean, should you be concerned at all?
2006-10-04 16:43:31 · 12 answers · asked by leazngurl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ask him... definately ask him. That is the only way to find out for sure. Be straight up and tell him that you are slightly concerned and want to know if you should be.
2006-10-04 16:47:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 216 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, any big change like that with no explaination is a concern! Also, he is being very disrespectful by putting the phone on silent just so he doesn't have to talk to you. In fact, I would say he is being a jerk for treating you like that and being a weenie for not having the guts to talk to you about what's going on.
If he's broken up with you, you deserve closure. If he's not picking up his phone, show up at his house or send him an email telling him that if he's breaking up with you he should be a man and tell you.
2006-10-04 23:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah if its been going the way you say it has, with HIM calling YOU everyday and then one day he doesn't you should be concerned. Maybe he just wanted to see if you would call him if he didn't call you. I think he seems like he needs some space. Back off for a while and then talk to him about it in a few days.
Good luck!
2006-10-04 23:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he ever mention anything about having something to do or somewhere to go? It could be also that maybe he got tired of calling you and he's maybe testing you to see how many times it'll take for you to call. I wouldn't be concerned but do call him and once you get in touch with him, don't be afraid to ask him what is going on and tell him how you feel.
2006-10-04 23:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... I would be maybe he is cheating on you... I hate to say that. Or maybe he just wants to break up. Dont call him and when he calls you dont answer. Let him see how it feels a little. Make him sweat it when he finally calls. And if breaking up is the case... Dont sweat it, Your pretty there are tons of other guys out there that would love to date you. =)
Hope I could help.
2006-10-04 23:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might mean he wants to cool it for a bit or maybe he was just studying or busy with something really important and just didn't have time to talk, give it a couple of days and don't start freaking out before you know what was going on or if it happens again...wait it out, there's no need to freak
2006-10-04 23:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by rlsangel18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes iwould be concerned something is wrong if he has a cell phone i would check it to see if theres anything going on goodluck.
2006-10-04 23:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by Dolores c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - he's probably got something going on and he doesn't want a confrontation with you
2006-10-04 23:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should probably talk to him apart from on the phone...sounds like somethings up!
2006-10-04 23:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by eatleavz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him don't assume things thats always a bad thing to do. i could be he has a little problem and dosen't know how to tell you so ask him.
2006-10-04 23:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by Alexandrea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋