Family & Relationships - 2 October 2006

What does it mean when you break up with your dude, but then start to tease him about a "new girlfriend". I try to tell my ex that i don't have another girlfriend and that i am only interested in getting back with her, but she keeps playin like i'm lying about my feelings and about having a new girl friend. Could she be happy that i found a "new girlfriend" or could she be jealous or could she want me back but doesn't know how to tell me or could it be something else? By the way, i DO NOT have another girlfriend, i still love my ex with all my heart and i only want to work things out with her and no one else and that is the truth. But i need a womans point of view on this. Any help is greatly needed. Thanks

2006-10-02 07:41:39 · 28 answers · asked by drew46759 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband & I were married for 3 months & I found out he had cheated on me.I was at home & he didn't come home from being out.I took his excuse.I didn't think he would cheat.I was so upset about him being so irresponsable that it didnt cross my mind.But I checked his phone & found out why he didnt come home.Then lied to me, didnt tell me everything. I didnt find out until two weeks later that he slept with her & had been talkin to her before we got married.I packed my bags and was going to leave him.My good friend talked me out of it so I didnt leave.My husband is away know with his job.I found out five months ago that he had been having sibersex with some girl.He said he did it because I would not.I have sent him pics & stuff like that and I dont know y he would still do it.Now he wants me to turst him I cant.How do you start to trust someone who has disrespected our union?I say I will but I'm always checking his e-mail and it kills me that I cant see I his the one he has for work.

2006-10-02 07:41:29 · 21 answers · asked by Smooch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this Boy i wearly like and he has also been looking at me in class but now i have seen him with this 12 yeard old girl and he is 15 i dont know if it is his little sister or not i hope it is what ame i sopose to do?
Please help me

2006-10-02 07:40:28 · 4 answers · asked by Majsen 2 in Singles & Dating

I need to stay busy and forget!

2006-10-02 07:40:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You would not beleve what my husband just did to me. He just told me that we are taking a 7 day cruise on Saturday. 5 days away and he just told me. He has kept this from me for 2 months. When I asked him why we were going he said " Because I want to spend some alone time with you" What a great husband I have. You dont have to reply to this I just wanted to tell you all. But you can earn some points if you want.

2006-10-02 07:39:39 · 22 answers · asked by dbender705 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well i was dating this guy for a year and a half and he was the best boyfriend i ever had. i have a one year old girl and he met me a little after she was born. he taught her to call him dad and that's what she calls him and she loves him. well we always had an issue with him and other girls. after we were talking for a while he told me he had cheated on me on my birthday, but he says that he did it because he didnt really like me at first. well there were other incidents after that and he always came up with an excuse and i belived him because all i wanted was for us to be together and he said he loved me and we talked about marriage and kids. well we broke up a week ago and we promised we wouldnt be with anyone elst. were graduated this year and i'm in college.i just found out that he's been dating a junior for two weeks meaning he's cheated and kissed me after he has kissed her. i am so hurt and he told me she's special. i've done everything for him. and i dont know what to do.

2006-10-02 07:39:35 · 12 answers · asked by Paris R 2 in Singles & Dating

I plan on asking a girl to a formal dance, but another guy might ask her as well. Looking for an over the top way to ask her so she can't say no.

2006-10-02 07:39:29 · 3 answers · asked by Aaron C 1 in Singles & Dating

A close friend of mine has attempted suicide recently... she's fine, for now.

For about a year now, she's had an odd illness, sores all over her face. It's undiagnosed, possibly skin cancer, and we still don't know what it is. The sores have healed, though they've left scars, both physical and emotional. They've been coming back, in the same places not. I know the're not self-inflicted, but what it is... A couple days ago I recieved a letter... it's too personal to quote on here, but the last line was 'Goodbye, because this may be the last time you hear from me.' I called her, and everything seemed fine until now. She called and told me she had attempted to take her own life, I think she was trying to stab herself. She is still alive, but I don't want her to try it again, but I'm not sure how to tell her this without getting her more upset. She doesn't want her parents to know, and therapy is out of the question. I'm confused and worried and I don't want her to die. She's only 12...

2006-10-02 07:38:58 · 15 answers · asked by althea_js 1 in Friends

I am 33 year old guy, and comming out of a long term relationship. I haven't been on the dating scene in years. What does a woman look for in a guy today? Advice on clothing, cologne, and places to go, places to eat would be appreciated. My date is tonight and I want it to go off without a hitch! Thank you

2006-10-02 07:38:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really hate a close relative. I really don't want to pretend like I like her anymore. Every family function is ruined for me because I have to look at her smarmy face. I am considering removing myself from the whole family if I cannot resolve this. Any advice?

2006-10-02 07:38:28 · 9 answers · asked by shel1ey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 6Ft 2 with blue eyes and light brown hair. Would any concider going on a date with me.
barney.barnard@yahoo.co.uk

2006-10-02 07:38:21 · 6 answers · asked by Barney B 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 07:37:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 07:36:15 · 12 answers · asked by philanthropic 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 07:35:28 · 10 answers · asked by Thomas A 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend were talking today, and we've been going out about a year. We're 18. It came up that she had run away when she was younger, and I sypathetically said 'oh, that must have been bad, where did you go (as in where)?". She said, 'How dare you ask me that question?", I said "What, it was just a casual question?", she then replied "It's hardly a casual question", then she just stormed off without saying anything"

What do I do? I feel like I should apologise, but ideally just want to leave it, but won't that make things worse, as I don't really feel what I should be sorry for. Should I just apologise, or just leave it a couple of days and see if she calls me (she should eventually), what should I say?

2006-10-02 07:35:21 · 18 answers · asked by g s 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who I have been talking with and he is having a really hard time getting over a situation with his ex, as well as he has some anger towards his best friend. Long story, but I assure you that the two are interrelated.

I have been talking with him to help him, but he can't seem to get past the anger. He normally is pointing the anger towards himself and blaming himself for things they did... when I point out that they DID the things, and it's not his fault.. at least not in the way he is blaming himself.. then he gets uncontrollably angry and has some very not nice thoughts.

This person is very dear to me, and I would like to help him. He has been in a bad place and he doesn't have a lot of people he can trust, so I don't feel comfortable with just walking away... sooo... what can I do?

Any ideas on things I can say to him to help him take his thoughts in a different direction and to help him move on & find new people and experiences that will make him happy?

2006-10-02 07:35:01 · 3 answers · asked by Willalee 5 in Singles & Dating

My bf have only known each other a month dating we saw each other around school before that and are already talking about family . I am 18 and he is 22 and my parents dont like him because of his age so we are sneaking around but i really feel like i love him but i have only had sex with one person and it was after a year of dating maybe 4 times and 3 two weeks ago well after a few drinks my bf and i kind of lost control and had sex and well it was hard to keep our hands off each other before it feels a lot harder now.It feels like a drug i want to be with him all the time. And since then we have forgotten a condom or any other form of protection twice in the moment. How do i get back in control again? My period was suppose to have come last week on monday?should i tell him whats going on?

2006-10-02 07:34:28 · 24 answers · asked by Melanie o 1 in Singles & Dating

in the uk...u all seem a bit like geezer birds to me xxx

2006-10-02 07:34:25 · 22 answers · asked by charley7515 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey I really really want to learn how to cheerlead. Im 12 yrs old...turning 13 in April. I want to cheerlead beacuse it seems like a fun sport NOT beacuse I want to be popular or anything. My parents think that a couple fo girls in short skirts waving pom poms and cheering after some football players is a bad influence and NOT a sport. I really want to try it but THEY WONT LET ME!!! Please help me i needa know a way to persuade them!!!!

2006-10-02 07:34:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 07:34:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 07:34:09 · 5 answers · asked by okus66real 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to find out if this is the only relationship and I don't have too many sources too.

2006-10-02 07:33:39 · 10 answers · asked by Incredible Hulk 1 in Singles & Dating

I caught her choking the chicken the other day and last month she was spanking the monkey. Im at my wits end!!

2006-10-02 07:33:11 · 37 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i liked this boy but now i have a crush. he asked me out but i like another guy and like this boy is well. i am just scared people might say ugh! she is going out with him.
note:please dont say follow your heart. If you like him say yes.

2006-10-02 07:33:05 · 1 answers · asked by baby faced satan woman 3 in Singles & Dating

The man who did the frist time has since passed away :( , The other person i would ask has seprated himself from the family at his own choice , an i just dont know what to do , My Husband & I are have a re-new of Vows an i want someone to walk me down the isel again .. Who else could i ask ?? Help :( My 1 very close male friend has left the state , so i cant ask him .. Any ideas Anyone ?? .. OH rude answers will be reported .. i really need ideas .. help !!!!!

2006-10-02 07:33:01 · 23 answers · asked by lilredhead 6 in Weddings

i liked this boy but now i have a crush. he asked me out but i like another guy and like this boy is well. i am just scared people might say ugh! she is going out with him.
note:please dont say follow your heart. If you like him say yes.

2006-10-02 07:32:42 · 10 answers · asked by baby faced satan woman 3 in Singles & Dating

we've been dating for 2weeks now ,but he has been giving me the cold shoulder lately. It's proubly because I went to homecoming with my best friend friend jesse. I really love him and we been through alot together.He's been kicked out of school for three days now and I'm very scared. I've tried calling him ,but he hasn't answered. I need help bad!

2006-10-02 07:31:45 · 13 answers · asked by daisy10326 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 07:30:55 · 27 answers · asked by Satriani 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 07:30:06 · 17 answers · asked by M J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need to break it off...what do you think? (This is a relationship of 2 years)

2006-10-02 07:30:03 · 10 answers · asked by :-) 2 in Singles & Dating