What does it mean when you break up with your dude, but then start to tease him about a "new girlfriend". I try to tell my ex that i don't have another girlfriend and that i am only interested in getting back with her, but she keeps playin like i'm lying about my feelings and about having a new girl friend. Could she be happy that i found a "new girlfriend" or could she be jealous or could she want me back but doesn't know how to tell me or could it be something else? By the way, i DO NOT have another girlfriend, i still love my ex with all my heart and i only want to work things out with her and no one else and that is the truth. But i need a womans point of view on this. Any help is greatly needed. Thanks
2006-10-02 07:41:39 · 28 answers · asked by drew46759 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd stay away from her for a while. The break up is still fresh and games are still in the mix. If she really wants you back or something like that, then it's up to HER to communicate that to you ... just keep your distance if you can and focus on something else.
2006-10-02 07:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm obviously not a girl. But some girls do that to see if you've moved on or to see if you've gotten over them yet. It could be because she has a boyfriend and is scared to tell you until you show signs you've moved on. I used to have a girl always tell me I had a girlfriend, but it was because some of her friends wanted to go with her and always told her to 'watch out for me' and that 'I was a player' -=- If you like her be straight up with her and tell her that you do not have a girlfriend and that if there were any chance in the world you'd want her back - make it original and from the heart and you just might have a chance. If not she has moved on and maybe dating someone else. (BTW - it appears this girl also really digs you as a person if she doesn't completely avoid you after a break up- this is a plus.)
2006-10-02 14:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AW, talking about a dedicated man! If she's teasing you about a new girlfriend it could mean that she still has feelings for you. They may or may not be serious, just a sympton of breaking up. If she continues to tease you for more than half a year or so you might want to confront her about it. Or confront her the next time she teases you. If you tell her that you haven't gotten over her, maybe she's looking for some male attention. But CAUTION! She is a (I'm taking it you both are adults) woman so her reason for teasing you may be something completely different from what I have mentioned.
2006-10-02 14:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by Haadeeyah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to extract information from you just to make sure you don't have a new girlfriend. She's being childish right now and playing stupid games. In that case, indulge her. Tell her you DO have a new girlfriend the next time she asks, but don't give any details. Break ups are hard, but you deserve to be with someone who can be honest with you...and herself as well.
2006-10-02 14:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by infernal_seamonkey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh. Shes jelous... Shes teasing you like a little kids pulls a girls pigtails in kindergarden. She wants you to admit to being interested in someone else so that she can just give up all hope in gettign back together. (Although you don't have another girl..)
Take her out to an old resturant or place you would hang out alot at. Explain to her nicely that you aren't interested in anyone else. Shes just acting very childish about this.
2006-10-02 14:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by rickrock1213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what I had an ex boyfriend that i still very much cared for and I always teased him about His so called new girlfriend that didn't exist. I did so just to hear him tell me that he didn't have one and to reassure myself that I might have another chance with him so maybe that's what she is doing.
2006-10-02 14:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean to say, that its her misunderstanding that you got a new girl friend? if its yes, then you should go to her. explain her your feelings and try to patch up. if no then i am not sure why she is thinking like that. I don't think she will be happy if you have a new girl Friend.but if she decided for sure that its nothing to do with her. Then nothing should bother her. But if she still loves you, she might feel jealous if u have new girl friend. you have to express your feelings to her and try to find out her feelings about you. Good luck
2006-10-02 14:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by shahzebb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a bumpy road ahead of you, sounds to me that she is having seconds thoughts about not going out with you but she's afraid that is you guys get back togther you'll dump her. Convincing a girl of such a notion takes a lot of effort and from the sounds of it you are willing and able to do it.
Try wooing her with flowers (you can pick them yourself if you don't have money to buy them), poems, songs and just assuring her its her you want to be with and no other.
Girls play mind games with guys all the time, its our way of protecting ourselves from being hurt when in the end that is just what we really are, hurt.
Good luck, hang it there and just really truly be yourself with her, tell her you love her and want no one else but her.
2006-10-02 14:45:59 · answer #8 · answered by T-Bird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she start teasing you about a girlfriend is because she wants you to get one, that's what i did when i broke up with my boyfriend. i kept asking him how was his relationship with his new girlfriend, even tho he didn't had one. I kept doing it to let him know that it doesn't really matter to me if he gets a girlfriend or not, and to let him know that that wont make me jealous that i just want the best for him. I just didnt want to get back with him even tho he did wanted to get back with me.
2006-10-02 14:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by Gorjust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely if she's laughing and saying you ahve a new gf then shes probebly happy for you or she could just be really confusing and isnt being straight up with you. But if she isnt laughing than shes prob jelous and wants you back. To me She seems like she wants you back.
2006-10-02 14:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by powder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋