My bf have only known each other a month dating we saw each other around school before that and are already talking about family . I am 18 and he is 22 and my parents dont like him because of his age so we are sneaking around but i really feel like i love him but i have only had sex with one person and it was after a year of dating maybe 4 times and 3 two weeks ago well after a few drinks my bf and i kind of lost control and had sex and well it was hard to keep our hands off each other before it feels a lot harder now.It feels like a drug i want to be with him all the time. And since then we have forgotten a condom or any other form of protection twice in the moment. How do i get back in control again? My period was suppose to have come last week on monday?should i tell him whats going on?
2006-10-02 07:34:28 · 24 answers · asked by Melanie o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am scared !
2006-10-02 07:37:47 · update #1
I dont want a baby can i take plan b pill still?
2006-10-02 07:43:57 · update #2
Just be honest with him
2006-10-02 07:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by Hotdivababe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey have you lost your mind!! Use a condom, it's common sence! When you say talking about family, do you mean like having a baby? Are you crazy?! You're 18! I know it feels amazing, like a drug, when you're falling in love, but get a grip! How do youget control again? Well it's simple really, you just make a decision to get control, to use a condom everytime or stop having sex for awhile. And he doesn't respect that, well then you know what kind of guy he is.
Now as far as this current pregnancy scare, of course you should tell him. Even if it just turns out to be a scare, maybe it'll scare him into using a condom!
2006-10-02 07:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your period does not come in a week tell him. I felt the same way and I told my boyfriend I loved him and he broke up with me! Ha lol, right. Guys are unexplainable there is nothing wrong with your age but I would ask him what would he do if you were pregnant and then I would tell him after you took a test and then if it is positive then I would tell him. ( only if you want to keep the baby)
2006-10-02 07:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is 22, he knows what is going on.
Is he poor and are your folks well off?
He is using you, maybe for security, maybe just for the sex.
But he is using you.
Remember it is YOUR body, if your are pregnant, don't punish the innocent child! Adoption is a great alternative.
It is amazing that people are not ashamed to have sex with a person, but scared to death to actually talk to them. I think we as a society are getting things in the wrong order.
Peace, and Good luck.
2006-10-02 07:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl, don't tell him yet. Take a test first. If you're not pregnant, then that's cool. Just remember protection from now on. If you are pregnant, then tell him immediately (but find out first). If you think you might be but don't know for sure, don't tell him cuz it will put you guys through a lot of unneeded stress if you later find out that you are not pregnant. I really hope things work out. You're so young. Consider adoption if you are not ready. Good luck!
2006-10-02 07:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by jesse s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, if you aren't setting your life up for misery, I don't know who is. Why do you want to bring a baby into this world when you're obviously not ready? How can you be so irresponsible? You have all the control you want to have--stop using words to pretend you don't. Get real with yourself. I bet it isn't about his age that bothers your parents.
2006-10-02 07:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell him anything until after you take the test....then if you are not pregnant you need to go to you doctor and get on some form of birth control. If you are pregnant tell him right away, he has as much right to know as you do.
good luck....may your test come out -
2006-10-02 07:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to calm down. ALWAYS use a condom unless you WANT to get pregnant or are married. Unless you calm down the relationship, it's not going to last. You need to see a doctor about birth control and need to take a pregnancy test. If you really like him, you need to talk to him.
2006-10-02 07:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by beweird22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go see a doctor. then take it from there to tell ur stupid bf, and then ur parents if necessary.
yeah, yeah, so we all are passionate and hard to control, but being ruled by the d'ick is a sorry excuse for an intellgient human being....
plan wisely next time....birth control pills have been invented u know....
2006-10-02 07:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must bring this matter to ur bf. better you check with a doctor and take some precaution. this age like this. u cant control ur self. the age and the first exp make you addict. dont think always abo this matter. divert your mind. play or pray or chat with ur best friends without the sex matter. sure you will get some relaxation
2006-10-02 07:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by Sekar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell him he may be a daddy. Pray you are not pregnant and you both need to take responsibility of birth control.
How to stay in control - imagine you and boyfriend changing dirty diapers all day and night and getting sleep in four hour clips.
Good luck, you may have fulfilled your parent's worst nightmare.
2006-10-02 07:39:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋