Family & Relationships - 29 September 2006

I have a 20yr old daughter who has been "seeing" the same guy for 2 years and he is a total loser. He is 20, has no job, no license, he cheats on her all the time and lies to her and she calls me crying all the time. Once again, she has gotten back together with him and it kills me to see such a waste! My daughter is beautiful, intelligent, and works 2 jobs , she can do so much better! I am afraid to keep bad mouthing her b/f, I don't want to lose her! How can I get through to her that he is a loser and not worth her time and tears? Can anyone share any words of wisdom?

2006-09-29 06:51:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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mission possible?

heading out with the girls tomorrow nite and one of my friends is on a mission to get this guy hes rude,arragant and a pig.he treats her like crap makes her think she has a chance but changes his mind at the end of the night.i really dont want to see her hurt but shes determend this saturday is the night she says shes been talking to him and there'll be excuses on his part tomorrow nite.its only going to be a one nite stand which will destroy her.should i try talk her out of it or just let her get it out of her system and be there to pick up the pieces?P.Sshes a lovely girl and would never sleep around but this man is changing her and shes willing to do anything to get him!

2006-09-29 06:50:44 · 12 answers · asked by keevy 2 in Singles & Dating

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"A$$ Bangin"?

My girlfriend loves me Bnagin her In The A$$. Do most women in general secretly allow their boyfriends to bang theirA$$es or not?? What do you think ladies??

2006-09-29 06:50:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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How many lies does it take being caught in before all trust is gone?

2006-09-29 06:50:21 · 12 answers · asked by Bassey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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How to gain back trust from your best friend?

Recently I broke my trust with my best friend.She trusted me completely,with her life and the life of her kids.I broke her trust by doing what i said I'd never do and that was lie to her and I said some awful things to her,called her awful things,things I know arent true,were never true.I just said them to hurt her and that was wrong.I feel like a complete failure when I look at her now,that I let her down.She has a hard time trusting men and I was suppose to show her that i was one she could trust and there was a time where I was.She has said that we should start from ground zero and that time would tell if things would ever go back to the way they were.I have no idea how to gain her trust back.Her friendship is one of the most important things in my life and I realize the huge mistake I made and I would do anything humanly possible to get it back to the way it was,is that even possible?

2006-09-29 06:50:20 · 6 answers · asked by Jason W 1 in Friends

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What do I do when a guy ive only been dating 2 weeks already starts to get all emotional on me?

I've never been in a serious relationship before, and it seems like this guy wants to be in one. It's freaking me out.. Do i stay and see what happens, or do I just let it go???

2006-09-29 06:49:59 · 21 answers · asked by Zoy 2 in Singles & Dating

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Good kisser?

tinkerbell333's question got me to thinking...

If someone tells you "you're a good kisser"...do you automatically say "you are too.." even if they aren't - or do you just say "thanks"?

2006-09-29 06:49:56 · 11 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

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Would you Stay or Leave?

I haev to ask this for my friend since she is a complete mess and thus cannot do it herself, plus I'd like advice. Here's the story in a short version. Her boyfriend of almost two years got messed up with the law and is about to face heavy jail time, maybe a few years or so, I'm not up on law like that but anyway they originally had plans, before all of this, for her to move there and be with him and she got the ticket way way back in advance. Now she's a few weeks away from going and now this. She still would like to go but people are telling her she should stay where she is but she wants to be close as possible to him and his family, which she is also close to. If she stays her family will give her a hard time about how she's wasting her time on him but she cares for him too much to just abandon him. I do not know what to say but I figured she should go, find a cheap apartment, so at least she has a place to stay while she figures out her next move but others tell her different.

2006-09-29 06:49:54 · 11 answers · asked by Star 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

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ADVISE PLZZZZzzzzzz............?

iam tired of asking this question again and again........will someone please give an useful answer? i completely adore this guy.i mean iam hopelessly in love with him for the past 2 and a half years. i feel obssesed with him.but,he's already got a girlfriend. i told him that i like him, he said that he likes me too but it would be wrong to dump the other girl for me,and that he doesn't want to hurt her.but he says "i dont wanna hurt u either,i dont know wat to do"........... we just knew each other,not such great friends....why does he care about my feelings? and, i really like him a lot[and,i dont wanna be a *****],what should i do? should i call him up for the last time and give him my new number and ask him to call me when he's single again?or,should i not do it? why or why not?i can't help feeling sad over him,how do i ward off this unhappiness?
please give me some kind and HELPFUL answers.....and,if you are gonna critisise me then get lost,find someone else...

2006-09-29 06:49:18 · 2 answers · asked by sad princess 1 in Singles & Dating

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married into a family of manipulators.?????

I married into a family, who is always down on their luck, have no ambitions, and no employment. My husband is gullable and gets suckered into their sobb stories, and how they are going without all the time. I can tell you since last December, we are out almost $3500 dollars, and because he has a steady job, we are always being called upon.
But these people in essence make no attempt to have contact with our family, unoless by phone in ask of money?
He knows it's going on, but never tells them NO.
I don't know what to do. Over the last two weeks, we have shelled out $328. Yes I keep count.
help?
I forgot to add....... they have never paid us back, or brought up payment.

2006-09-29 06:48:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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Should I dump my girlfriend?

I won't go into details. Yes/no answers are fine.

2006-09-29 06:48:48 · 13 answers · asked by SR13 6 in Singles & Dating

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how long is too long?

how long would anyone consider it being too long for a girl to be single?

2006-09-29 06:48:26 · 7 answers · asked by UGHwhatever 3 in Singles & Dating

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Does this boy like me, because he emailed me?

2006-09-29 06:48:12 · 2 answers · asked by Speedy 1 in Singles & Dating

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Why does he feel the need to always be right?

2006-09-29 06:48:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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I would like to help the woman getting all the abuse by the hubby by give shelter to her and the kid?

2006-09-29 06:48:03 · 7 answers · asked by kenny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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wat should i do??i has two friens which we 3 knw each others for yrs....?

2 of my friens had feeling on mi,i dun knw wat 2 do or reject them by nt hurting their heart.cos i had told them b4 tat i will only treat them as friens.bt til nw they still nv give up,i knw they r very gd 2 mi bt i always treat them like friens nv tik of other thing.i nv think they will quarry becos of mi nw.i sudd feel very scare dun knw hw 2 face them..some of my friens ask mi 2 choose 1 of it bt i really dun had tat kind of feel,i only hope we can b friens.am i doin anytik wrong or wat?i very headach nw!help?

2006-09-29 06:47:59 · 13 answers · asked by cat 1 in Friends

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what should i do if girls not responding my hi?

2006-09-29 06:47:04 · 22 answers · asked by fantastic 1 in Singles & Dating

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what should I do?

Me and my boyfriend, we have some problems...I love him, he says he loves me too but there are 2 weeks now since he acts strange: he never has time for me.I always get the second place.I give him everything and I expect the same thing from him.I am sad every day and I have a feeling of anxiety every moment of the day.Should I brake up with him?

2006-09-29 06:46:58 · 26 answers · asked by ota marmota 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

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Do you push or pull your own sexual package?

A guy is eating at an exclusive eatery when the waiter comes up to his table and asks if everything is okay. The man replies "Yes," but during the conversation drops his spoon on the floor. The waiter immediately pulls a spoon out of his shirt pocket.

The man asks, "Why do you carry a spoon in your pocket?"

The waiter says that the place is so busy all the time, the employees need to save time any way they can. So they did a survey and the most dropped eating utensil was the spoon. Now, all the waiters carry spoons so they don't have to go to the kitchen and get one. The man thinks that is great.

Later on, the waiter again stops by to see if everything is okay. This time, the man notices a string sticking out of the waiter's zipper. He asks what that was for, and the waiter says, "When we go to the bathroom, we just grab the string and pull it out. That way we don't have to wash our hands, thus saving us time."

"Interesting," says the man, "But how do you put it back in your pants when you're done?"

The waiter says, "I don't know about the other waiters, but I use the spoon."

2006-09-29 06:46:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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so my bestfriend is now dating with my ex, who i liked alot, what should i do?

she keeps lying to me about it and doesnt tell me when they talk. I dont want to hold her back from him but my feelings should be important to her also. i want her to understand

2006-09-29 06:46:11 · 6 answers · asked by sillywilly 1 in Singles & Dating

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Would you stay with him for 3 years??

Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. He cheated on my 2 times last year and we broke up for 8 mths. Monday Im moving him in with me? what do you think should I stay with him or would you all just say to forget it and find a better man?

2006-09-29 06:45:33 · 25 answers · asked by cutest_chick_of_2004 2 in Singles & Dating

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If your friend plans a event and cancels at the last minute more than twice,is that person a real friend??

2006-09-29 06:44:11 · 8 answers · asked by Mysique_X 2 in Friends

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how do I get her to break up with me?

I agreed to go out with this girl without thinking, and now I want to get her to break up with me so I don't have to break up with her and break her heart.

2006-09-29 06:43:58 · 22 answers · asked by The Aabenator 3 in Singles & Dating

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i NEED HELP RIGHT AWAy and LOTS OF ANSWERS!!!?

me and my bf broke up about 3 weeks ago and havent been talkin to each other even tho we both agreed we would be friends. i still love him and ive told him how i feel about a week ago, and i dont know if i should send him an IM just sayin hi. i dont want to seem desperate for his attention, so i dont know if sending him an IM will appear that way. i really miss him, and i care for him and still have strong feelings for him. i havent sent him any IMs or emails in about a week, the last email i sent him was the one telling him how i feel, he sent me a IM back saying "thank you for making me happy. sorry i dont love you, bye, i wont forget u either" i was thinking that if he didnt care for me as at least a friend he wouldnt have said anything, so should i send him an IM sayin "hey, just wanted to say hi, hope youre doin ok. later"

2006-09-29 06:43:39 · 12 answers · asked by sarah_gotdance 3 in Other - Family & Relationships