heading out with the girls tomorrow nite and one of my friends is on a mission to get this guy hes rude,arragant and a pig.he treats her like crap makes her think she has a chance but changes his mind at the end of the night.i really dont want to see her hurt but shes determend this saturday is the night she says shes been talking to him and there'll be excuses on his part tomorrow nite.its only going to be a one nite stand which will destroy her.should i try talk her out of it or just let her get it out of her system and be there to pick up the pieces?P.Sshes a lovely girl and would never sleep around but this man is changing her and shes willing to do anything to get him!
2006-09-29 06:50:44 · 12 answers · asked by keevy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The more you tell her not to, the more she'll want to. Human nature I'm afraid. In her own time she'll work out what a loser he is. Til then, just be there for her. Point out other blokes who are eyeing her up, and try to keep her occupied so she hasn't got a chance to go over to him. But if she wants to do it, you can't stop her. Let her get on with it and be waiting the next day to dry her tears and wash away the sleazy feeling with lots of wine.
You sound like a really good friend to have, by the way.
2006-09-29 06:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by Fifi L'amour 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is to try and keep them apart he sounds like an idiot that is going to break her heart if you cant keep them away from each other the only thing left for you to do is as a friend is to be there to pick up the pieces she is obviously smitten with this guy and doesnt sound or look like anything you say and do will stop her getting what she wants from him so just be a the good fiend you are by supporting her and being there when he breaks her heart
2006-09-29 06:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by Secretguk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times you just have to let people make their own mistakes and just be there to be a good friend and help pick up the pieces.
2006-09-29 07:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, if she ignores you then try to go somewhere that he hopefully wont be, but if you do run into him then just be there to pick up the pieces after. Sometimes there's just no telling people and they have to make there own mistakes! And friend just have to be there and be understanding and comforting!
2006-09-29 06:59:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to her that sleepimg with a guy does not make respect her or make them look at her as a long term partner.
tell her if she really wants him, to play it cool an if he is really interested then he will chase her.
he is probably thinking she is desperate.
tell her the hardest thing is always the right thing to do.
tell her he will respect her more for not jumping into bed with her, and if he doesnt chase her, someone else will.
tell her whatever she decides to do you will be behind her, but tell her what he is really like.
2006-09-29 07:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go with him and be a good friend to pick up the pieces. You cant talk to her if shes that determined, she wont listen.
2006-09-29 06:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is really your friend, drug her and make sure that she doesnt go tomorrow.....if she still doesnt agree call the cops and make sure she is in a lockup or something.
Reason with her, tell her honestly that what she is doing is wrong and you as a friend are seeing the change and she is becoming something freaky who you wouldnt be friends with.....
2006-09-29 06:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by bostoncity_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she should see at least a chance for 100 one night stands, if she does, maybe go for it. One night might not be worth the risks.
2006-09-29 06:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't go out to watch an emotional car crash. do something else but tell her to ring you if she needs you. don't facilitate self-harm but be a friend!
2006-09-29 08:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, get her to snap out of it. If its sex she wants then tell her you're there for her.
2006-09-29 07:02:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋