Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. He cheated on my 2 times last year and we broke up for 8 mths. Monday Im moving him in with me? what do you think should I stay with him or would you all just say to forget it and find a better man?
2006-09-29 06:45:33 · 25 answers · asked by cutest_chick_of_2004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to ask yourself if you can really trust him or if you're willing to trust him anymore. If you're willing to give him this chance, then go ahead, but be careful. On the other hand, if, in your heart of hearts, you find that you just can't quite trust him anymore, then you really shouldn't move him in with you.
Good luck! You sound like a deeply caring and forgiving person; I hope your partner appreciates you and doesn't fail you again.
2006-09-29 09:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has cheated on you twice then why would you want him back? Do you two share children? If not, I say how about moving on or putting the move in on hold? Sometimes it is hard to make such a better decision about breaking up with a cheater when we know that their is another woman on the side lines waiting but ask yourself is that what you are really worth? Will there be trust after he moves back in with you ? And what's up with that? Why would he move in with you? Does he not have a pad of his own? Be careful and hold on to that move in deal. Give both of you some time to see how you both are going to act. You never know, the more time he is not living with you, you may become stronger to letting him go and getting someone who respects you better and he may show his true colors......whatever that may be.
2006-09-29 13:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can made that decision. Personally, I think you should move on. Cheating on you once can be forgiven (maybe), but twice is a pattern. And those two times are just the ones you know about. I'd be very leary of having any kind of relationship with this person.
2006-09-29 13:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mom of 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never never ever live with a man until there was a wedding ring on my finger.
I would never never ever stay with a man who is still looking for "the girl of his dreams" which is exactly what your bf did twice last year.
You have forgiven him twice so why would he expect anything less than you forgiving him a third, forth or fifth time?
2006-09-29 13:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find a better man. I have always been told once a cheater always a cheater. How do you know he is going to stay faithfull to you now after he has cheated twice already?
2006-09-29 13:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by Tinkerbelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you already have doubts you should break up with him. If this was a sure thing you wouldn't have to question it. You definitely deserve better. You will find a better man when its meant to be. Find and treat yourself first. Good luck.
2006-09-29 13:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it a little late to be asking us?? He is moving in on Monday?
I suppose if you are having second thoughts it would be a good indication that you are not doing the right thing????
2006-09-29 13:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem to like pain and being unappreciated. If so, go for it. If not, you know what to do. Sounds like the guy is using you. It is getting cold outside. All mammals look for a place to "hole up" for the winter. If you get played, remember you played yourself.
Good luck.
2006-09-29 13:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a user to me. But if you want to stay with a lying cheat, go for it.
2006-09-29 13:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by parsonsel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't move in with him....find someone who thinks enough of you not to cheat on you. you have forgiven him twice already---there is not reason for him to stop, so unlesss you are cool with him having whatever on the side, dump him.
2006-09-29 13:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋