2006-09-29 06:44:11 · 8 answers · asked by Mysique_X 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm actually going through this same situation with my own friend except I'm the one being accused of not being a good friend. My advice is don't lose a good friend over tardiness or not showing up. It's not personal so don't take it that way. I'm not good at planning my life I'd rather be spontaneous and just go do stuff. If I have to plan something it throws me off. I would suggest before calling that person a bad friend think of all the good things they've done for you and how important those things are in comparison with the bad stuff, also take into cosideration how long you've been friends. If the bad out weighs the good then get rid of that person if not let it go and just express your concern for the cancelations let them know how you are feeling just don't make it a confrontation!
2006-09-29 06:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u understand i think of it would be ultimate to ask her why she does that n locate the genuine reason. coz u c noone might make a plan just to cancel it on the final 2d. do locate out why does it take place everytime??? yet each and every of a similar hereafterwards whilst u do make plans attempt to be waiting to accomplish on my own. u would desire to have achieved it some time past. then u wdn't have been so pissed off. now the component is u would desire to njoy ur plans n u can't unload somebody only coz she cancels the plans or u can consistently invite some different frnds. then it won't probable remember if she will't come!!! ur chum
2016-10-18 05:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your first responder. Maybe that person is just going thru something tough right now, or maybe something actually did come up and she couldn't help it.
honestly, I would take the 1st step and talk to her and find out if how things are going for her right now and if she needs a shoulder to lean on or a friend to depend on to help her thru whatever it might be.
and in the process of helping her, you could ask her to help you figure out how to help you not bail on her anymore.
put like that, it is not hurtful or negative and is bound to create an atmosphere of her wanting to let you know what's up and so on.
2006-09-29 06:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey it depends on the reason for the cancels.
2006-09-29 06:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say they are not a real friend, but I wouldn't really be able to depend on them anymore
2006-09-29 06:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by marypaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Why not? This person is just not a very affective planner. Why don't you help out next time?
2006-09-29 06:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A flaky friend but she probably doesn't mean anything by it.
2006-09-29 06:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can be ur friend but i would lose all my trust in him and never depend on him or her again
2006-09-29 07:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by goodguy2463 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋