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2 of my friens had feeling on mi,i dun knw wat 2 do or reject them by nt hurting their heart.cos i had told them b4 tat i will only treat them as friens.bt til nw they still nv give up,i knw they r very gd 2 mi bt i always treat them like friens nv tik of other thing.i nv think they will quarry becos of mi nw.i sudd feel very scare dun knw hw 2 face them..some of my friens ask mi 2 choose 1 of it bt i really dun had tat kind of feel,i only hope we can b friens.am i doin anytik wrong or wat?i very headach nw!help?

2006-09-29 06:47:59 · 13 answers · asked by cat 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

13 answers

please type the whole word out next time. i don't think you should choose between your two friends. you may need to tell them both that you just want to be friends.

2006-09-29 07:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by girlshadow212 4 · 1 0

Hi friend,
Choice is a lifetime asset. This cannot depend on others opinion. Friends are friends but, remember, you are also to some extent responsible for their that kind of feelings on you.
You may say that You think of them as your friends but may be because of your behavior, attitudes etc. some other feelings may have developed in their mind. you better not blame it all on your friends.
But the question of choice is different. If either of them is not your choice then don't hesitate and tell them the truth frankly and soon. The friendship or relationship may undergo a bit of uneasy phase temporarily. But if they are really good friends of you, they will understand and cooperate.

2006-09-29 14:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by krishnendu c 2 · 0 0

ok, so you are saying that 2 of the people you care about as friends are interested in you in a more personal way? And you are afraid to say something because it may hurt their feelings?

If you don't say something, it will create much misunderstanding and confusion.

You could very easy tell them both that you are their friend and that is all you can think of them as. and you don't want them to not be your friend, but again, that is all you want from them.

how they react to that is totally up to them. it is not your responsibility to make sure they handle it okay.

you look out for you.

2006-09-29 13:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 0 0

only choose one if thats what u want to do, and if they are your friends they will understand in the long run, if u only want to be friends with both then just tell them that youre not interested in anything more and that if they keep bothering u ur gonna have to stop talking to them bcuz its driving u crazy

2006-09-29 13:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

If you ae facing a crisis in personal relationship , the least you can do is to suspend using sms language.

2006-09-29 13:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by Rajesh Kochhar 6 · 0 0

You really need to take some writing and spelling classes. That is the worst I have ever seen.

2006-09-29 13:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by J D 5 · 0 0

I would help you, but I can't read what you wrote! Use spell check.

2006-09-29 13:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by Drew 4 · 0 0

Its hard to read this. Just dump them all!!!

2006-09-29 13:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by Brevin 2 · 0 0

k

2006-09-29 14:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by N0t Known Never Ever 2 · 0 0

Sorry!!!!!!!! I can't help, I have no idea of what I just read....

2006-09-29 13:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by Nae-Nae 1 · 0 0

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