Family & Relationships - 28 September 2006

I have been talking to Jessica for 3 weeks already. I think she is really attractive. The day before yesterday, I have been caught staring at her then I looked away (I was like 20 feet away from her). I know I probably made her feel uncomfortable. This week, she was rather avoiding me like when I went into the class, she still had her head up (yesterday's incident). Then when I took my seat, then she put her head down. and now today, she sat somewhere else today since someone took her seat. Is it right for me to sit next to her today? How do I start making her feel comfortable talking with me again? I really want a friendship with her. Should I just tell her a coverup on why I was staring at you like "Did you ever got the string that was on your sweater?" but then again, how do I explain her looking back at me and I look away? Hmm. Or should I just tell her the truth like "I find you very attractive. I want to be friends with you and nothing more."

2006-09-28 12:43:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can you be sure that guy is the one your gonna love for the rest of your life or that you love him without actually knowing him.

2006-09-28 12:42:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been talking to Jessica for 3 weeks already. I think she is really attractive. The day before yesterday, I have been caught staring at her then I looked away (I was like 20 feet away from her). I know I probably made her feel uncomfortable. This week, she was rather avoiding me like when I went into the class, she still had her head up (yesterday's incident). Then when I took my seat, then she put her head down. and now today, she sat somewhere else today since someone took her seat. Is it right for me to sit next to her today? How do I start making her feel comfortable talking with me again? I really want a friendship with her. Should I just tell her a coverup on why I was staring at you like "Did you ever got the string that was on your sweater?" but then again, how do I explain her looking back at me and I look away? Hmm. Or should I just tell her the truth like "I find you very attractive. I want to be friends with you and nothing more."

2006-09-28 12:42:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years......we have a great relationship we hardly ever argue and he's usually understanding, well my problem is that we just got a new house but we have two roommates to help with bills, we all get along but I feel like he never wants to spend time with me, as soon as he gets home he turns on the PlayStation. They always invite people over and have parties and never let me know about it, I go to bed and he comes to bed hours later. I always ask him to do something but he never does it. What should I do, should I say something to him? How do I avoid an argument?

2006-09-28 12:41:32 · 5 answers · asked by girlie101 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i could either go or babysit my lil bro and let my parents go for a dance they have the smae night......what should i do!??!?!?!?!

2006-09-28 12:41:21 · 6 answers · asked by nvpizzite 3 in Family

Well theirs this boy at my school I like but I can't tell if he likes me!
He looks at me often and puts his arm around me and smiles at me alot but he does that with other girls too! But I notice he does this with me the most frequently. Someone always coming up to me saying he like you.

2006-09-28 12:41:02 · 10 answers · asked by QueenBeeNumbaOne 2 in Friends

After my husband death last year non of my in laws came to see me or phone me .When I made any phone call they were very cold towards me. They do not want to know me. During the funeral of my late husband my mother law said in front of every one that I am not her daugher in law and my husband's mistress is the one. My sisters in law are favour the mistress.

2006-09-28 12:40:47 · 6 answers · asked by shiningstar2808 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I both work 40 hours a week but I feel I am getting f------. I do all of the housework, help my son with his homework, look after the pets, grocery shop, pick up the dry cleaning, fix dinner at least 4 times a week, do all the laundry and perform my wifely duties at least 3 times a week. My husband does the yard work!!!! Please please please do not tell me to talk to him about it......... I've been there and done that. All I hear is that he makes 3 times what I make which is why he feels he doesn't have to do sh*t!!!! And also please do not tell me to hire a cleaning lady............. my husband and I keep seperate accounts which means I have NO money!!! He has it all!!!!! I am just trying to find out if I am the only fool living. I do live in a beautiful home, wear nice clothes, drive a nice car, etc so maybe I should keep my pie hole shut. Give me your feedback.

2006-09-28 12:40:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating a wonderful man for more than a year and he makes me feel loved and he cares about me a lot. I feel I love him but I also feel our relationship needs more passion. I like that tender love he provides but I need wild passion sometimes. he's a difficult person when it comes to suggestions, I was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on how to tell him what goes in my mind. and if the lack of passion continues, should I just break up?

2006-09-28 12:40:07 · 16 answers · asked by Moon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It just so disgusting. Please help our cause.

2006-09-28 12:40:05 · 19 answers · asked by Chula 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 12:39:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

who would want to have a boyfriend that is 5' 9", has black hair and blue eyes, is turnin 15, and is named Jordan?? hehe

2006-09-28 12:39:34 · 10 answers · asked by airjmeder92 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex-girlfriend broke up recently because of distance and she was talking to her ex behind my back (no contact thought). we are across country from each other. i have been dating another girl for the past month, and i really like her a lot, but i am still in love with my ex-girlfriend. i was even thinking about marrying my ex! now that i thought i got over her, she is telling me she made the biggest mistake of her life and wants to be with me, and even willing to move to where i am. i am in love with my ex and i want to be with her, but i like my new girlfriend. what can i do to help me make my dicision???? im in love with one, but i just started with the other,

2006-09-28 12:39:01 · 3 answers · asked by eecc 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-wfie and I have been divorced for three and a half years now and during that time she has not made very good decisions when it comes to dating men. In fact she has been a total disaster in her behavior and choices. Now she has met a guy who from what I understand is a pretty good guy. So here is the problem. He is being deployed to Iraq for a year, they have only been on 1 maybe 2 dates and yet she is willing to wait the entire year. Just because she has bad luck with men. Of course what she is not willing to admit is that the main reason for her bad luck is due to her bad decision making. So is it reasonable for me to want her to keep her options open so that our kids don't have to see mom get her heart broken again. I want this relationship to work for her, I want her to be happy. I just fear that she might be setting herself up again for a bad sitaution just because she is desperate.

2006-09-28 12:38:00 · 19 answers · asked by big_dreamer2005 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My co-workers have told me that there's this divorced woman (early 40's, but looks YOUNGER), at the office, who seems to find me attractive. This statement has also been claimed by the woman's closest female friend.

The problem is: She's OLDER than I am, but looks good.

However, when I see her, she acts like there's nothing going on and greets me as if she HAD to.
For example, today she acted TOTALLY CARELESS towards me. She didn't neither look at me (NOT even once), nor did she GREET ME. Plus, whatever file (paperwork) she was suppossed to give me, she would pass it to me through her best friend, so that she would have NO contact to me, I guess.

Her closest female friend, though, ALWAYS teases her while I am nearby.

I am very curious whether this all is true or not or whether this could be part of just a joke. How can I find out?

What do you think???

2006-09-28 12:37:32 · 21 answers · asked by R. H 1 in Singles & Dating

C'mon gentlemen, why is it that most of you do not appear to care about your appearance? You certainly still care that the women in your life take care of themselves...do you not?
Why is it so many of you dress shabbily, have bad breath, have scraggly beards and have very poor conversational skills, yet seem to think you've got something to offer a fabulous woman such as myself!!
I KNOW there's some fabulous worldly-wise highly intelligent and well-groomed men out there--but where?

2006-09-28 12:37:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this kid always trips me in the hallways and shuts my locker...he always is flirting with me but he also flirts with some others...i think he is attractive and everybody thinks he likes me but i am no so sure. and he asked what i was doing on friday...so does that mean he wants to hook up or not??? HELP ME PLEASE!!!!

2006-09-28 12:35:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He says "It just wouldn't work with us." because I remind him of his ex. He says he knows it's unfair. I feel I am being punished for something I had no control over.

Does that mean he has basically made up his mind, and that's it?

2006-09-28 12:35:18 · 20 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 12:34:47 · 10 answers · asked by Elisabeth W 1 in Weddings

Im not telling you what...just go with your gut instinct x

2006-09-28 12:34:29 · 38 answers · asked by Smokey 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this boy at school that i have the biggest crush and i really want to know if he likes me too so i was hoping that you guys could help me! so in the 6th grd we were good friends and talked all the time then in 7th grd a girl told him that i liked him and he slowly stopped talking to me than over the summer he started e-mailing me and we were really good friends again but as soon as skool started he still e-amiled me but he won't talk to me at school so i asked my mom what i should and she said play it low key so i did and i decided to stop e-amil hima nd see if he would start talking to me in person. since i've stopped i notice he still won't talk to me but he will actually come up and talk to my grp of friends now whereas be4 he wouldn't. i still get e-mails from him. what do u think...deos he like me???

2006-09-28 12:33:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy at school and i showed my bestfriend and then she liked him and she told me that they have ths same class in pe and she also told me that she's always daydreaming about him and she wants to catch the guy's attention. i don't want our friendship to end. i really like this guy and she does too. should i end this or keep going?(i don't want to hurt her)oh and here's the twist the guy's an eight grader like me but my bestfriend is a sixth grader

2006-09-28 12:33:28 · 7 answers · asked by mgelise 2 in Friends

My husbands fantasy is to watch another woman with me and he later join in. I 've never been with a woman before! Should I do this? And how would we chose the person? Should it be a friend or aquaintince or a complete stranger? I don't know what to do, I want to make him as happy as he does me! But if he joins in how is that going to make me feel? In a way I think it would be exciting to try something different , but I'm not a lesibian or bi sexual and have no plans on ever being that way! Please give me advice!!

2006-09-28 12:33:22 · 25 answers · asked by tld_9803 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a misunderstanding with the guy I've been dating for a month. It's a medium-sized misunderstanding but I know it raised a red-flag for him. I asked him if he still wanted to date, his reply was "Well, this has me concerned..." and then left it with "I'll call you later." I know that when a man says "I'll call you later" it doesn't mean I'll call you later today. It means, "I'll call you when I've cooled off in a week or so." How long should I give it before I write him off? I cannot contact him because it was a misunderstanding about nagging ---he gave me his work number and said to call anytime. I called a few times and he got bothered. Today, when I asked if he was in a meeting all day, rather than just checking his schedule, his receptionist hunted him down. So, he thought that I asked her to do that. I really want to salvage this one... (he's 34)

2006-09-28 12:31:49 · 11 answers · asked by Jenny J 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 12:29:45 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in Europe for studying and it'll last 14 months. It's really important to me but I've got a boyfriend in my home country and he wants me go back and marry him. What should I do?
Thank u!

2006-09-28 12:29:37 · 13 answers · asked by APPLE 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a 17 years old girl, and I've never had a boyfriend. Guys just don't seem to be interested into me. Well, I don't think I look good either( I'm 5'5, 130 lbs long brown hairs and dark brown eyes) ... It's very depressing to see how everyone else has, or already had a boyfriend or girlfriend but not me..please help.

2006-09-28 12:28:59 · 25 answers · asked by Staticx 6 in Singles & Dating

this girl asked me out to a club, we are friends , but not that close, cause i don't like her, really

2006-09-28 12:28:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Since i've been talking to my new guy m8 we used to text each other a lot like everyday!!! I had feelings for him and so did he but he had a girlfriend and his girlfriend was not treating him right when i found out he liked me i started to send him flirty text messages and so did he and it felt great. Then few weeks later things between him and his girlfriend started to go great, and we decided to be just mates nothing else and now i feel that i'm losing him because he keeps forgetting to text me back and i end up texting him and he replies and then it repeats again plus i rarely see him now because he is in university help me!!!!

2006-09-28 12:28:46 · 10 answers · asked by Miss_Party_Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 12:28:17 · 8 answers · asked by Susanne R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships