I have been talking to Jessica for 3 weeks already. I think she is really attractive. The day before yesterday, I have been caught staring at her then I looked away (I was like 20 feet away from her). I know I probably made her feel uncomfortable. This week, she was rather avoiding me like when I went into the class, she still had her head up (yesterday's incident). Then when I took my seat, then she put her head down. and now today, she sat somewhere else today since someone took her seat. Is it right for me to sit next to her today? How do I start making her feel comfortable talking with me again? I really want a friendship with her. Should I just tell her a coverup on why I was staring at you like "Did you ever got the string that was on your sweater?" but then again, how do I explain her looking back at me and I look away? Hmm. Or should I just tell her the truth like "I find you very attractive. I want to be friends with you and nothing more."
2006-09-28 12:43:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but then again, if I do that, she might say "Oh, I do not want to make friends with you." How do I start talking to her again? I want to make friends with her?
2006-09-28 12:43:12 · update #1
dude, chill. just tell her that you want to be friends with her. also, a crush is a word used when one likes another in a boyfriend-girlfriend way. it looks like that's not what you mean. also, maybe you can try talking to her, just start up a normal conversation. ask her what the homework for a certain class was, or about how hard the recent test was, does she think that is was ok? that kind of stuff.
good luck!
2006-09-28 12:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh... stop staring at her and following at her all the time. She might think you are a stalker or something. It will then be a very negative impression on her side on how she sees you. Just act normally and all. Dont be too obvious. When she is avoiding you, it is just a sign that she doesnt want to be bothered. Might as well do favors for her. You can do her favors by doing her projects until she catches your feelings. Show to her that you love her indirectly ok? Anyway, its just how I see... dont be offended. Anyway, good luck with her.
2006-09-28 12:50:33 · answer #2 · answered by entrepreneur_boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just want to be friends why would you tell her that you find her really attractive? If you wanna hook up then ask her out, if you just wanna be friends then continue talking to her as a friend and stop staring at her.
2006-09-28 12:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by gq1412@sbcglobal.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a girl and theres this guy who did this to me too. the thing iz though i avoided him cuz i didnt want to make him feel uncomfortable or stupid so i juss stayed my distance. he eventually juss got the guts to come talk to me,he just asked me if he could borrow my "notes" and i said sure. the next day he said thanks and said i owe u one, i asked him if he played any sports and it went off from there. start off w/ samll talk and then the next day go into something ur comfrotable talking a/b like sports or music stuff like that(nothing offense to girls or nothing preverted, girls hate that) if she really all that great of a person she'll talk to u or at least smile, if she gives u a dirty look then remember "dont waste ur time on some1 who wont waste their time on u!" best of luck!!
Sunshine
2006-09-28 12:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you just post a question about your ex-wife about 5 times asking whether or not you should commit suicide? Which is it? Are you suicidal, or do you have a crush on a classmate.
Whatever.
2006-09-30 18:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by J B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You chill out in the class. don't make such a stink about it. Over time she'll realize that you're not so bad and might even be friends over time.
2006-09-28 12:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your question will enlighten all the girls out there what goes on in our guy's head when we like a girl but are to afraid to act. perhaps the girl in question will read this and understand as well. my advise is to be bold as hell like nothing else in the world matters.
2006-09-28 12:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh, nice question! What I would do is I would say, ''did you do something to your hair, the last couple days its been looking realy good, ive been looking at your hair lately and I CANT SEEM TO FIND OUT WHAT U DID TO IT??''
2006-09-28 12:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok good for you damnit emma e your sooooo stupid stop leaving that stupid message everygosh damn time you answer if you have noithin good to say leave its realy annoying
2006-09-28 12:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by natrual flirt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋