I have been talking to Jessica for 3 weeks already. I think she is really attractive. The day before yesterday, I have been caught staring at her then I looked away (I was like 20 feet away from her). I know I probably made her feel uncomfortable. This week, she was rather avoiding me like when I went into the class, she still had her head up (yesterday's incident). Then when I took my seat, then she put her head down. and now today, she sat somewhere else today since someone took her seat. Is it right for me to sit next to her today? How do I start making her feel comfortable talking with me again? I really want a friendship with her. Should I just tell her a coverup on why I was staring at you like "Did you ever got the string that was on your sweater?" but then again, how do I explain her looking back at me and I look away? Hmm. Or should I just tell her the truth like "I find you very attractive. I want to be friends with you and nothing more."
2006-09-28 12:42:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
but then again, if I do that, she might say "Oh, I do not want to make friends with you." How do I start talking to her again? I want to make friends with her?
2006-09-28 12:42:52 · update #1
just gather up the courage and go talk to her. she's not worth being a friend if she doesnt. i wish guys like you went to my school
2006-09-28 12:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have already been talking to her for 3 weeks so the hard part is over. just walk up to her and say whats up...or ask her why hasnt she been speaking to you. after you begin to converse again, you can come clean and tell her that you think she is pretty but make sure you dont lead her in a direction you dont want to go.....yet.
2006-09-28 19:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend to her first. Don't rush into things. School just started. And you know when schools starts there is always that first crush thing ! Keep in mind : "Be care ful for what you wish for........ Because it might not be what you really want !"
2006-09-28 19:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth!! if a guy told me the truth and i felt the same way i wuld totally go out with him!!just like my friend, she didnt want 2 tell him the truth but he convinced her 2 and now they're friends!! so tell the truth! DEFINATLY!!!
2006-09-28 20:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by Superglue12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her hi and ask her something you want to know. then just pretend like your not interested and then a few days of saying hi ..you guys will eventually start talking.. thts just how u get to know ppl.
2006-09-28 19:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by ILIKETOPARTYY~! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go up 2 her and be like: hey, do you want to be friends? Then, get to know her, and if u want to, tell her u like her.
2006-09-28 19:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by MissAteam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is you like her. tell her or you heart can be broken. i liked a boy and never told anyone then i lost him to my best friend. but it okay because i never even told her
2006-09-28 19:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by sexytrinithng 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. Girls hate liars.
2006-09-28 19:44:47 · answer #8 · answered by xoaligatoxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get 2 know her, let her get 2 know u and u can b friends...... and may be some thing more some day....
2006-09-28 20:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b4 u spill the truth make sure she doent have a bf.....
2006-09-28 19:56:02 · answer #10 · answered by smurf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋