I had a misunderstanding with the guy I've been dating for a month. It's a medium-sized misunderstanding but I know it raised a red-flag for him. I asked him if he still wanted to date, his reply was "Well, this has me concerned..." and then left it with "I'll call you later." I know that when a man says "I'll call you later" it doesn't mean I'll call you later today. It means, "I'll call you when I've cooled off in a week or so." How long should I give it before I write him off? I cannot contact him because it was a misunderstanding about nagging ---he gave me his work number and said to call anytime. I called a few times and he got bothered. Today, when I asked if he was in a meeting all day, rather than just checking his schedule, his receptionist hunted him down. So, he thought that I asked her to do that. I really want to salvage this one... (he's 34)
2006-09-28 12:31:49 · 11 answers · asked by Jenny J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be careful he could lose his job over that and he might have things on his mind
2006-09-28 12:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by babykatdream099 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think when he's ready then he'll call you or get a hold to you when he's calmed down. Just give it some time and things we'll be fine. If he never calls again then sorry you'll have to move on.
2006-09-28 12:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa--just because a guy gives you his work number doesn't give you the right to call him several times a day or a couple of times during the week. In this case, if you don't hear from him in 3 days, you won't be hearing from him again. Please don't go chasing after him either...
2006-09-28 12:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it sounds like you blew it. Leave him alone. You're not making things any better. If he wants to continue the relationship he will call you. Don't sit by the phone waiting though...
2006-09-28 12:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by mJc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-03-27 02:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him two weeks, then write him off. He needs to lern that you aren't waiting on him forever!
2006-09-28 12:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by Fishy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should start to forget him. he is not serious with you. he is avoiding you. and he is stubborn. guys at the age of 32 - 35 who acts like that are stubborn. give your self a break and go out. relax and have fun. :)
2006-09-28 12:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him!! If he wont even take time to talk about it then its not worth it!! Relationships require communication!!
2006-09-28 12:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by stormy1612smash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time, and when he is ready, talk to him about it. tell him how you feel. Blah. Show him this question =]]
2006-09-28 12:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by xoaligatoxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the guy two weeks then move on.
2006-09-28 12:35:59 · answer #10 · answered by sweetneesy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋