After my husband death last year non of my in laws came to see me or phone me .When I made any phone call they were very cold towards me. They do not want to know me. During the funeral of my late husband my mother law said in front of every one that I am not her daugher in law and my husband's mistress is the one. My sisters in law are favour the mistress.
2006-09-28 12:40:47 · 6 answers · asked by shiningstar2808 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am so sorry this is happening to you.
You need to just let it go. It isn't fair.....it never will be fair. You will never get from them what you need.
Any emotional energy you spend on this will only hurt you.not them. They are already clueless and have a strong opinion on the matter.
You will have to just cut them of your thoughts or this will drive you nuts. Then in a twisted way you let them win. p
You don't have any power over them -- you can't change them, you can only change how you react to them.
I know this is hard but Just let go.
God & Karma will take care of this.
2006-09-28 12:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems they do not want to talk to you so why force it. You didn't mention whether you have children with your late husband. If you don't I wouldn't even waste my time thinking about them. You found out at the funeral where you stood with them. If children are involved be civil when they are around, other than that screw them.
2006-09-28 16:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sandra B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He desires to bypass to the close by authority and that they're going to detect a room for him. If he's not arranged to assist him self why hardship!! according to probability you mom in regulation desires to be business enterprise and supply her son a awaken call... I now its complicated yet whilst she would not do something now he will nonetheless be there in six months.
2016-10-01 11:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by huenke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to speak with such low life individuals? Be happy they want nothing to do with you count it as a blessing.
2006-09-28 12:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
let them alone ... they would only poison the good memories you have with him
2006-09-28 12:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
screw them all!
2006-09-28 12:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋