I'm in Europe for studying and it'll last 14 months. It's really important to me but I've got a boyfriend in my home country and he wants me go back and marry him. What should I do?
Thank u!
2006-09-28 12:29:37 · 13 answers · asked by APPLE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Education is more important...Stay in Europe and finish your education. If your boyfriend is an understanding individual, he will wait for you.
2006-09-28 12:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your instinct tells you. If you are in love with the guy then maybe it wouldn't be so difficult for you to choose...but then again you didn't provide much info. I say if he truly loved you too, he'd understand and wait for you also. Then again, you can always go marry him and return for your studying, he might even be able to come with you, 14 months will fly by.
2006-09-28 12:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sea -N-Sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him wait 6 months if he still loves you after all that time and you love him your love is eternal. If he waits 6 months then if you love each other marry him and have a wonderful rest of your life together and enjoy your timein europe you lucky person.
2006-09-28 12:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by sweetneesy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him - NO.
Your life and studies are more important than marrying someone and lose everything you got going for you! Life is too short to get married then have kids and then lose your identity cos you'll be stuck at home looking after screaming kids!
Dont do it lady! trust me!
2006-09-28 13:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by scorpion queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is soooooooooo important at his home that he can't just live with you in Europe while you are studying? Ask him to chill with you for a while
2006-09-28 12:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by jonny666_law33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait 14 months and see what happens he might come and live with you - personally marriage is a waste of time.
2006-09-28 12:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue your studies,if your boyfriend loves you he can wait to get married that way you will have your qualifications to get the job that you want and have a good start to married life.
2006-09-28 20:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay the 14 months. If he really loves you, he will not deprive you of this opportunity, and will wait.
2006-09-28 12:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Continue with your studies. :)
2006-09-28 12:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him chase after you, do not return home on his demand.
2006-09-28 19:55:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋