Family & Relationships - 27 September 2006

I had a serious argument with my GF 3 days back ......really serious that can cause our relationship breakup. She told me not to call her again.....that cant continue with me......but i called her again 2 days back....she was angry....and scolded me horribly.
I have not called her for last two days.........but i know she is waiting for my call .........and if i dont call she would feel that i really dont love her(she always feels so).......but if i call her........she will again.......crush me into dust.........tell me please should i call her or not.......she is really angry......and looks commited to end up our relationship

2006-09-27 16:51:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have a custody agreement, 50/50 and it states that we should not talk about the divorce, or trash the other parent. They are, and they are spoiling the heck out of my son, with the support money. He's saying that he wants to live with them. I don't have the money for a lawyer to go after them...how do you help a 9 year old see past the lies and propaganda.??

2006-09-27 16:51:04 · 11 answers · asked by Sad-Dad 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont like my girlfriend but i dont want to tell her cuz she will get her feelings hurt.what should i say to get her to dump me?i need serious answers pleese!!!

2006-09-27 16:49:59 · 24 answers · asked by philip souza 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my Hindu bf have been in love for more than 2 yrs. He's in Australia. And I'm in China. 6 months ago he told me he couldn't marry me for his culture and parents. That time I was really heart-broken. Now we're still in the relationship but we fight off and on for this topic. He felt regretted for being rude, and he already told his parents about me, and probably they'll accept me. But still I couldn't bear to feel pain when I think of that, becoz I can't trust in him again, and I feel insecure. Next month I'll move to Australia to his city. Shall I continue the relationship with him, or quit it to obtain a new life ?

2006-09-27 16:49:51 · 8 answers · asked by Linlisa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mostly it is the man who has cold feet, but for some reason I am a little scared. He is almost perfect that is what scares me. Everyone say we are the model couple. What am I scared of?

2006-09-27 16:49:04 · 20 answers · asked by I'm Married!!!! 3 in Weddings

Don't get me wrong I love my sister unconditionally, even tho we have lived far apart we always remained close..She is getting into a relationship with my first husband who is also the father of my first born child my son.How Jerry Springer of her huh? I'm not exactly sure how to deal with this , so if you have any serious advice ..I would really appriciate it.

2006-09-27 16:48:40 · 21 answers · asked by Roxy 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-27 16:48:14 · 15 answers · asked by avijit 1 in Weddings

Mostly it is the man who has cold feet, but for some reason I am a little scared. He is almost perfect that is what scares me. Everyone say we are the model couple. What am I scared of?

2006-09-27 16:48:12 · 19 answers · asked by I'm Married!!!! 3 in Weddings

2006-09-27 16:48:07 · 13 answers · asked by xxx 4 in Friends

Never done it myself, but I knew quite a few people in college who did. To my knowledge, all of those friendships drifted apart and ended. Maybe more of a correllation than a causation, since lots of friends drift apart.

2006-09-27 16:47:20 · 6 answers · asked by Jimmy 4 in Friends

Ok I'm in love with this one guy. And we've dated 8 times. On and off for 4 years. But he doesn't love me anymore even though he says he still does. And I'm still so madly in love with him. We're broken up right now but I can't get over him. I'm trying to make it work with this one guy but it ain't happening. He's still in love with his other ex though. And we argue all the time. But he argued more with his other ex. Someone please help me.

2006-09-27 16:47:07 · 30 answers · asked by Kelly J 2 in Singles & Dating

A buddy and I were talking and I saw that he was holding his girlfriends hand but he was holding it underneath her hand. I told him later that men are supposed to be in the dominant position when holding a woman's hand which means his hand should be over hers, not under. He said it didn't matter to him. I told my friend it should and that his girlfriend is going to think he is a wimp. Am I wrong here?

2006-09-27 16:46:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ran into this lady who stole my boyfriend about 10 years ago. When I caught them together, I was devastated and hurt. She had no guilt or shame. This evening, she told me her boyfriend who she lived with for the last 8 yrs threw her out and she is living in her car. She stayed with her sister for 2 days and she told me she told her to get out. I feel evil almost because I think what goes around, comes around and when she was messing with my boyfriend she didnt care about my feelings. I left her sitting there without a home or anywhere to go. She is pathetic looking and a serious drunk now and has gone to pieces. Would you have done anything? I dont want her in my house.

2006-09-27 16:45:41 · 12 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

his acting really werid.when we where first 2gether he would call me and always beg me to come over and get mad if i wouldnt .lately he doesnt even care .he'll tell me to come over and if i dont he doesnt even get mad .last weekend i went over and in the car he told me to listen to this song called can you be my weekend girl?i was like wtf why are you listing to that and he just changed the song when i got mad .he doesnt hardly call and the other day i was playing around and said that i got a new man and i hung up on him and he didnt even call back or anything and when i tell him that his changing and ask him if he wants it to be over all he says is do you want it to be over .before i would see him like 4 times a week and now i see him about 2 times a week and he doesnt even care .the other day he told me to come over cause he wanted to f*ck all day ..if he wants it to be over why wont he just say it already?should i break it off or just let it ride and see what happens

2006-09-27 16:44:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hasn't brought you a real birthday gift.

2006-09-27 16:44:00 · 12 answers · asked by Mia W 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 16:43:37 · 44 answers · asked by motorheadss84 2 in Singles & Dating

Married a golf pro from England, he received his permanent resident card and walked out on me and our kids. Maxed out our credit card and bank accounts. Have been told by one attorney that nothing can be done, just divorce. I have already reported him to the INS. I was just wondering if there was something else I could do that I do not know about>>>>

2006-09-27 16:43:27 · 6 answers · asked by soccerchelseafan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it bad to play with yourself at work?? Sometimes i get a little h0rny and feel the need to relieve myself. Anyone else get this problem?

2006-09-27 16:43:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 16:43:10 · 4 answers · asked by aint_ez_lovin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

about 4 months ago me & my bff said our goodbyes cause her mom like controlls her every move & that inculeds who she's friends with anyways her mom is like so crazy that she will take (lets say her name is sara) 2 youth group & i go 2 the same youth group as her & the same bible study as her, her mom will stay there until the leaders actually have 2 ask her 2 leave and she like buts into everything sara does & its so nuts you wouldn't even believe me if i told you the whole story anyways when we stopped being friends i hadn't called her for like a month & @ the time we were still in school & i see her in the halls during passing period & so i do the nice thing & say hi well she went home & reported 2 her mom like always & her mom told the counsler 2 tell me that if i didn't leave her alone she would get a restraining order against me & anyways know when i go 2 youth group her mom will see me & start talking 2 me like nothing ever happened what should i do this is really geting to me!!

2006-09-27 16:41:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been dating this woman for 6 months and last night we decided to move it into a sexual relationship. she cooked me dinner and she drugged me. when I came to I was tied and gagged and nude. my date and her sister took turns having sex with me. I know sounds like every mans dream but I was never asked and being gagged I was not able to tell them to stop so I know this is considered rape. Now where it gets wild is I enjoyed it so my question is. Is it still rape since I enjoyed what happened? I do not plan on making an issue out of the ordeal I just would like others opinion on this question.

2006-09-27 16:41:14 · 29 answers · asked by willy 2 in Singles & Dating

How should I handle this situation.

2006-09-27 16:40:55 · 9 answers · asked by Nep 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

She's from Tokyo. she's coming to visit me here in Brooklyn this weekend! I’m so excited and her birthday is coming on Oct 6th.

2006-09-27 16:40:41 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 16:40:22 · 10 answers · asked by daredevil83 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband must be living in 1950's america. I have been a stay at home mom after I had our son 3 years ago. I quit my job to stay home with him, because he's the only child i will ever have and felt it was important for me to be with him. now, since he'll be starting school next year, i thought i would go back to school myself, online, and do something for me.But my husband is furious, he doesn't want me to. He says he makes enough to support his family, I don't have to work, but this isn't about the money, it's about me. I have spent the last 3 yrs. cooking, cleaning, running errands,taking care of our child, being a housewife; and as much as i enjoyed it, I want something more out of life, and don't understand why my husbadn doesn't see that. I don't know what to do, he is so angry at me,.

2006-09-27 16:40:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i went up to her and asked her out afterschool and she called me BLUNT lollll never got blunt before.. she coulda just said not interested or taken but blunt?? LOL thought it was funny ..

2006-09-27 16:38:13 · 20 answers · asked by joey 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 16:38:07 · 4 answers · asked by aaupthemeggs 2 in Family

God has blessed me with a man who is absolutely everything I've always wanted. I cannot even begin to describe the love that I have in my heart from this man.
Here is the problem.
In the last few months there have been many times where I have drinken so much that I cannot recall what I did or said. I go on crying sprees when I am drunk and ramble on and on. He told me the other night that I practically broke up with him. I have gotten help for my drinking, and stopped for a while. But because of stresses in my life, I have had quite a few times where I just had too much. He never complains. He tells me that I am not at all mean, just that I cry alot and that he makes sure that I am ok.
My question is........how can he love me this much to put up with this? I couldn't put up with it. He says he loves me, and he doesn't LIKE it, but it doesn't bother him........I tell him that I am so sorry, and he always says "don't worry about it. I love you."
I don't want to lose him...

2006-09-27 16:38:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-27 16:37:05 · 22 answers · asked by Hillary Dillary 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 16:36:39 · 10 answers · asked by itsa_me23 3 in Singles & Dating