I had a serious argument with my GF 3 days back ......really serious that can cause our relationship breakup. She told me not to call her again.....that cant continue with me......but i called her again 2 days back....she was angry....and scolded me horribly.
I have not called her for last two days.........but i know she is waiting for my call .........and if i dont call she would feel that i really dont love her(she always feels so).......but if i call her........she will again.......crush me into dust.........tell me please should i call her or not.......she is really angry......and looks commited to end up our relationship
2006-09-27 16:51:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You probably just need to come to terms with the fact that the relationship is over and just move on.
If she wants to talk to you she will call you.
2006-09-27 16:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,Ofcourse But This One Should Be The Last One n If Again She Says Tht She Is Rude Dont Call Her Now....Wait n See Weather Is It You Only Who Care For Her Feelings Or Is It She Too?
2006-09-28 01:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by tweetie_pie_ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call, and I would set some distance between the two of you for a couple of weeks or months. You can't talk or reason with a person who is drunk with booze, nor can you cogently talk to someone who is drunk on anger.
I don't like that other people are telling you to call and give her presents, if she is manipulatice enough to play a power game, don't give in! Don't be the one without power in the relationship because it will make you weak. Please, don't give in to her power manipulation . .
Give the situation time to cool off and gain some perspective, on everyone's side. . . mayby over time you may decide that the relationships not worth the effort
2006-09-28 00:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by jhs80123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would call her again, but before you make the call, know that she may hurt your feelings but that she still loves you. If you are still afraid to pick up the phone and call her, then you may want to consider writing her a note/letter, asking her to meet you someplace, etc. Give her some time, she'll get over the argument because you are probably a really great boyfriend if you care about this fight so much. :)
2006-09-27 23:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she scolded you for calling her b4 don't. If you can go to her house with flowers or a small gift (not too flashy she'll think your trying to buy her back). If this is serious take her hand and look in her eyes say i am so sorry and i want our relationship to last because i love you or something that you trully mean.
hope this helps
2006-09-27 23:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is ready to end this relationship, then you have nothing to lose. Maybe, you can send her a letter and send her flowers. Put the ball in her court. Tell her if you care about me and want to salvage this love, call me. If she does not call you, it is probably time to starting look for a new love.
2006-09-27 23:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by croc hunter fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a womans point of view. Shes playing hard to get. She wants you to call. If she ends up getting mad at you tell her your serious that your really not going to keep chasing her and if she really wants to end it then end it.
2006-09-27 23:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by WaHiAwA WaHiNe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's upset. You need to make it up to her. If you really want to make her love you (again?), you have to apologize. Do something romantic. Sing outside her window, send her flowers, write her a love letter. Do something creative. She'll forget all about it if you do something to make it up to her. Plus,If she does get mad at you, you can say that you didn't call!
2006-09-27 23:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have said what she is PO'ed ABOUT I SAY CALL HER ONE MORE TIME AND IF SHE TREATS YOU LIKE A CHILD AND HANGS UP ON YOU THEN GET A FRIEND TA CALL HER FOR YOU and let her no that you will not b calling her again she can call you
2006-09-27 23:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jeannie T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, I would not call her.. And if you see her or she calls you and if she ask why you didn't call, just tell her you were giving her space and time to cool off. Just play it by ear, and trust me she will END up calling U.. Good Luck! :)
2006-09-27 23:55:44 · answer #10 · answered by Hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋