Earlier, I posted a question about having a quick marriage to my boyfriend in the face of a very potential pregnancy, because his culture&parents dictate that we marry before our child is born. Now, I am faced with another problem. My bf is not a citizen,&is here on a work Visa&grant with a University. My friend's convinced that the only reason he is pushing for a marriage so fast is because he wants to have citizenship. I love him,&I know that is not the reason he wants to get married so quickly, he's not that type of person, plus he's always telling me about how great things are in his country. So, obviously, he's not pushing for citizenship. I think he is just really concerned about his culture&what his family will think about our child out of wedlock. My question is, many of you advised me to go ahead&give him the fast marriage he wants for our child...do you think that the citizenship issue is another good reason to go ahead&marry him...especially for the sake of baby?
2006-09-25
12:16:50
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LadyBug
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Marriage & Divorce