Me and my husband have been separated for about two years now..I just stared a new relationship about 3 months ago and ever since he found out about it he won't stop asking me how the sex is with my boyfriend and i ... I ask him to stop asking me because i will never talk about it But he won't stop..He ask things like How good is he in bed?? How do we have sex?? How long do we have sex for ?? If i have ever given him oral and if he has ever done it to me ?? Thing like that and even tho i never answer him he keeps asking...He calls me about once a week and the only reason why i pick up is because we have 2 kids together ..But as soon as i hear him ask me stupid @ss questions like that i hang up and turn my phone off...Why do you think he's doing this and what should i do ? Please help
2006-09-25 12:20:04 · 38 answers · asked by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, I dont know why you two got divorced, but I'm sure that he is alone, has nothing better to do but act immature. After my ex and I split, I couldnt wait to get away. And afterwards she would always bug the crap out of me to come over, the kids are asleep, etc... basically booty call BS. Long story short.... call him up, and tell him you dont like him asking about you and your boyfriend, and that he is being immature asking you those kinds of things. Then if he persists, that you'll have Jeff the Drunk show up at his house and break his knees.
2006-09-25 12:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by jeff the drunk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 16:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer him. Tell him every possible thing you can think of. Go find a book and tell him all the positions that are in the book. Once he finally figures out that you are lying, then he'll stop asking b/c he won't know what is true and what is not. And if he repeats any of it to anyone to get back at you. Then he's the only one that will look like a fool because of an Ex that is telling about the exploits of his ex? Who will care?
2006-09-25 13:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You play games and thrive on the attention. You play the boys (not men) against one another. Low self-worth, to sum it up. The chaos and fight over you makes you feel more wanted and lovable. Why else would you hang on to your marriage on paper when you haven't had one in two years? You should just move the boyfriend in with you and Hubby and let him see the answers to his questions, in person. You'd all get off on the anger- and jealousy-sex. If you're going to demean yourself and use people for your own ego-boost, at least give someone a benefit.
2006-09-25 12:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by georgia b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't have to put up with him asking u all these personal questions, u can eithr ignore him by just hagingup when he calls I mean he doesn't have to talk with u, whenever u calls just like him talk to the kids and when they're done talking with him hang up.
He only asking because he's being nosey plus he jealous and u allow it. U really don't have to naswer him he does it because he know it bugs u plus he know u may give in and answer.
2006-09-25 16:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might be jealous that you found a new man. Either that, or he is trying to be a "friend" to you and it's coming off the wrong way. Maybe talk to him about it and tell him you aren't comfortable discussing your sex life or relationship with him and you would appreciate it if he would stop.
2006-09-25 12:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm no Dr Phil, but sounds like your husband from whom you've been separated for about 2 yrs, is suffering from insatiable curiousity and/or perhaps jealousy, and/or wondering how he stands in comparison to your boyfriend.
I would just be gentle and say, "(Whatever his name is), I'm not going to ever go into any details about my current relationship, just as I would not expect you to go into any details about your relationship(s). So kindly, do not ask me repeatedly and do not ask me again about it."
My question to you is: When are you getting a divorce, and have you consulted an attorney, and also just to be on the safe side, consulted a counselor for yourself and your children as you go through this trying time?
2006-09-25 12:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by doublewidemama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you have the best sex you ever had with your boyfriend and that what you do is none of his business to quit asking you or you will have him up for harassment!! Let him know that the only thing you have in common now are the children-he is trying to upset you!
2006-09-25 12:26:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should have a long talk with him. Also i think that you need to have no contact with him, Due to the fact that he has no life and doesnt no when to stop. He is very immature and really needs to go away. I think you need to only have contact with him just for your kids sake. But any thing else is not any of his bussiness!
2006-09-25 12:24:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know if it's not about the kids he doesn't have anything to discuss with you. Your love life is none of his business and if continues to do it you are going to let your voicemail pick up so he can leave his concerns regarding the kids on it. Problem solved.
2006-09-25 18:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by TIRED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋