Family & Relationships - 23 September 2006

Okay, Me And This Guy Dated For About 8 1/2 Months. And I Assumed We Were Great Together. Well One Day He Randomly Broke Up With Me And Never Really Explained To Me Why. Well We Had A Rouch Patch For A While And Stopped Talking. We Started Talking Recently And He Is Acting The Same Way Towards Me As We Did When We Were Going Out. And When I Try To Ask Him He Gets Mad And Hangs Up On Me Alot. And He Likes To Start Fights With Me. Well A New Guy Recently Walked Into My Life, And He Treats Me The Way I Want To Be Treated But I Can't Seem To Let This Other Guy Go. I Just Don't Know What It Is. He Also Happens To Like My Best Friend {Which He Has No Chance With}. But He Acts The Same Way And I Sort Of Like The Way He Acts, Even Though Were Not Together. I Don't Know What To Do. Tell The Guy I Love That I Just Can't Do It Anymore [ Even Though He Claims To Love Me] Or Go With The New Guy [Who We Both Mutually Like Each Other]???

2006-09-23 11:30:47 · 11 answers · asked by cierra91 2 in Singles & Dating

like my friend likes him i do too. and when im not with him my heart really hurts and why am i in pain when im not with him

2006-09-23 11:30:43 · 4 answers · asked by *Elizabeth Estelle* 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 11:30:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-23 11:30:13 · 18 answers · asked by john_0502000 3 in Family

if she cuts me off for more than a few days a guy has the right then to fool around and get it from some other woman right??? like there is no way I should have to feel guilty and I still will be there when she decides to get real and have sex with me again right?

2006-09-23 11:29:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-23 11:29:42 · 7 answers · asked by April 1 in Marriage & Divorce

should i go for it? they aren't dating(offically) only flirting with the idea

2006-09-23 11:29:02 · 4 answers · asked by brittneysvg 1 in Singles & Dating

When I was eleven I used to be really skinny and had the shape of a stick. However when I went through adolescence, my body changed dramatically. My hips grew and so did my butt. As a result of this rapid growth spurt, I developed stretchmarks on my hips. I am 5'5 and weigh 122 lbs. Alot of my fat is on my hips and butt area. I have a flat stomach. I was wondering what would guys think of my body. I know that if I had a flat butt and no hips, I wouldn't have stretchmarks.

Additional Details
This is the only thing that concerns me about my appearance.

2006-09-23 11:28:20 · 20 answers · asked by lavender 2 in Singles & Dating

she has done very accurate readings of hands and has very astute insight and can read people very clearly even complete strangers. she often has precognition events, and has "meetings" with dead relatives of hers. she says she doesn't see them just senses their prescense along with other people she does not know. i am very worried but i remain open minded.

2006-09-23 11:28:11 · 20 answers · asked by darius 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok this is how the situation went... I asked my new co-worker out; lets say Wednesday to see a comedy show on the weekend but she said she was busy. Thursday comes around and she confronted me verfying that I wanted to take her out yesterday and I said yes. So then she tells me that she is dating someone for the past 7 years but they are not ingaged/married. So I kept my cool but then Monday comes and she asks me if i wanted to catch a movie and have dinner this weekend (she mentioned as friends) and of course I said yes. Let me remind you, we enjoy each others company at work and we both can't stop smiling to one another. Can someone tell me how do they perceive this situation as? Does she has interests in me or is this a casual thing "friends" do. I have never came across a "friend" that wanted to go out with me even though she is seeing someone. Help me out.

2006-09-23 11:27:46 · 6 answers · asked by T Daddy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok this is how the situation went... I asked my new co-worker out; lets say Wednesday to see a comedy show on the weekend but she said she was busy. Thursday comes around and she confronted me verfying that I wanted to take her out yesterday and I said yes. So then she tells me that she is dating someone for the past 7 years but they are not ingaged/married. So I kept my cool but then Monday comes and she asks me if i wanted to catch a movie and have dinner this weekend (she mentioned as friends) and of course I said yes. Let me remind you, we enjoy each others company at work and we both can't stop smiling to one another. Can someone tell me how do they perceive this situation as? Does she has interests in me or is this a casual thing "friends" do. I have never came across a "friend" that wanted to go out with me even though she is seeing someone. Help me out.

2006-09-23 11:27:11 · 5 answers · asked by T Daddy 2 in Singles & Dating

one, out of three people. one has been in the picture for so long,he would be the most undersanding,he is the most sophisticated, loves her tirelessly. the giver, fun with a hint of, bad boy,cute, cuban. the other has been in cali. at a halfway house and is back, she doesn't want to be a flake and not be at his reception,( nothing has been learned by him),her name is silva, his last name is hart,she likes that. #3 thinks he's her man, he hits her, spits her and no one likes him. of course he thinks he owns her. the #1 guy, to keep the peace, picks her up around the corner, so the other dude won't hurt her, we all wait till the day the girl want's #3 gone. the girl and the first guy, it's kind of strange, they get along like a married couple, but nothing sexual. if you were around #1 and the girl, you can feel there is a strange energy. "question", who should the girl go out with??? her mom wants to know, she doesn't believe you guys can help,i want to show her our forum...

2006-09-23 11:26:48 · 3 answers · asked by lee f 5 in Singles & Dating

Do you think they are still hot?

2006-09-23 11:25:35 · 14 answers · asked by MAMA 1 in Singles & Dating

I am now dating a guy that both me and my best friend from high school were interested in. He picked me not her, now i know that she is going to be mad when she finds out. how should i handle this?

2006-09-23 11:25:31 · 9 answers · asked by ebrinkleywc 2 in Friends

2006-09-23 11:25:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, here it is...

A good close male friend of mine is becoming a lot more "close" to me, its quite obvious to me that he wants more than just friendship as do i....but there's a major problem that comes in the way (something that means there is 0 chance of us ever being together) - dont ask

We both know there is no chance, yet for some reason slowly our friendship keeps progressing...

Now i know that i can prevent anything from happening, i can even stop myself getting emotionally attached to him, but im not too sure about him

He knows the consequences but he still seems to take things further, like talking and texting a lot more, getting involved in my life - getting attached! He is willing to take that risk - what shall i do? I dont want to lose him as a friend, i really dont!

2006-09-23 11:24:53 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Friends

2006-09-23 11:24:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-23 11:24:32 · 4 answers · asked by belinda a 1 in Family

if sex is so bad why do adulds do it

2006-09-23 11:24:16 · 2 answers · asked by LoLo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-23 11:24:01 · 5 answers · asked by hayfa h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 11:22:30 · 4 answers · asked by aqua 4 in Singles & Dating

I am twenty one and recently had a beautiful baby girl.. Number 2 for me. I met my bf when i was pregnant with my first son. we have been togather since. we broke up twice in 3 years just because i lost interest. I love him crazy and i dont know why it happpens. But for the last few months every thing he does annoys me. even stupid things like the way he chews or the way he sleeps. i am going crazy. I dont know what to do. I feel like if something doesnt change i will leave him again. Why is it like this? what can i do to avoid this.

2006-09-23 11:22:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

tastes good works well? u tell me

2006-09-23 11:21:24 · 1 answers · asked by neanderstrat 3 in Friends

Ive liked this guy for 2 years now..and everytime we talk and see eachother we always flirt and get along really well. Everyone knows I like him and can tell that he's into me too. But i dont understand...Ive made it so obvious that i like him..does he still not see it or does he just not want to go out with me?! I need some serious advice. I cant keep waiting for him...but i know hes the perfect guy for me. He possesses all the qualities i look for in a guy.

2006-09-23 11:20:29 · 16 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 11:19:48 · 9 answers · asked by coco 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright so im a highschool student...and i dated a girl for about 8 months.....i loved her 2death and everything and we did alot of "messing around" but we never actually had sex. So we broke up of course and here i am about a year or so later trying to figure out if i just want to be "friends with bennifits" with some people or do i wanna go through all that again...but i cant seem to find the right girl if i wanna go through that again....Please help...any suggestions on what i should do???

2006-09-23 11:19:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do i do?
They have family problems that i never had.

2006-09-23 11:19:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you were veryintrested in a guy and he felt the same way .
And he was very clear in his intensions for a certain type of relationship? purely physical ...
want your feed back

Thanks

2006-09-23 11:18:23 · 5 answers · asked by erf1960 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 11:17:18 · 12 answers · asked by student 3 in Friends

I have a girlfriend that is older than my by 10 years. I feel threatened when she speaks of ex-boyfriends and their accomplishments. It bothers me that she interacts with so many guys anyway. She allways said she talked down to many young men before and now I broke through the barrier with exquisite timing. I love her alot. She tells me she loves me. Why do I feel so many insecurities? But, she spends so much time with me. And she comes to my aid so much that there really should be no second thoughts about where her heart is. Is it me that I don't trust?

2006-09-23 11:17:12 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships