Ok, here it is...
A good close male friend of mine is becoming a lot more "close" to me, its quite obvious to me that he wants more than just friendship as do i....but there's a major problem that comes in the way (something that means there is 0 chance of us ever being together) - dont ask
We both know there is no chance, yet for some reason slowly our friendship keeps progressing...
Now i know that i can prevent anything from happening, i can even stop myself getting emotionally attached to him, but im not too sure about him
He knows the consequences but he still seems to take things further, like talking and texting a lot more, getting involved in my life - getting attached! He is willing to take that risk - what shall i do? I dont want to lose him as a friend, i really dont!
2006-09-23 11:24:53 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well first you need to talk to him about the problem and se what he thinks about it
2006-09-23 11:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by Double A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is a real reason for you not being able to be together, he should realise this too. If he doesn't then he is not the friend you think he is. It seems that he is only after one thing, no matter who he upsets along the way. If he really is a true friend he would back off and allow you both to be just that, FRIENDS... but something tells me you like the attention? tell him straight before it ruins everything, if he doesnt respect that, call it a day on him!
Good luck!
2006-09-23 11:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rick R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very very hard to answer this without a reason being provided as to why you cant get together...i mean if its something like "because youre related" then i would give a very different answer to if its just becuse hes the ex of a good friend or you dont fancy him or something. The reason it will never happen is important to the answer im afraid... any chance of revealing it? (i know you said dont ask but its kind of important!)
2006-09-23 11:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
without really knowing why you can't be together makes it really difficult to offer advice but i seem to be getting the vibes that culture or religion or family differences has something to do with it and if that is the case then if the two of you really care about each other that much you should try making a go of it and then deciding how to deal with the issue when your relationship has a stronger foundation. good luck
2006-09-23 11:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by missree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, that's natural that has happened to me to.I just told him I liked him better as a friend. I still feel kinda weird around him and it has been 1year!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-09-23 11:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by HOTchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no chance of you being together, why waste your time?
2006-09-23 11:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you used to go out with his brother, or he go out with your sister? if so, im qualified to answer...
2006-09-23 11:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋